: Minnesota Discussion : Ahem. To clarify...

remylively See my TER Reviews 4245 reads

posted 9 years ago

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Hi hobbyist "gents" (LOL),

I know this is all fun & games & few of you actually care or think about our welfare as, you know, real human beings who risk our lives daily for you & have to read the disgusting things you write about our bodies. But maybe try to keep specific incall locations & personally identifiable information out of our reviews? I would love to not get evicted from my incall this year because one of you decided to essentially pinpoint my neighborhood.

Thanks a bunch, please continue with your regularly scheduled misogyny!

XOXO,
Piece of ass #64258943

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TrinityLake See my TER Reviews 972 reads

posted 9 years ago

2 / 26

So not cool! I'm so sorry, Hun. I'm with you on that! (E)

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Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 768 reads

posted 9 years ago

3 / 26

Safety should be paramount!!

Revealing locations/identifiable info is tacky.. Sorry girl this happened!!! We all need to respect one another's DISCRETIONS!!

Happy hump day Minnesota!!
Where's all Peanuts statues located around the city, I want to take photos!!!
Another reason why I adore Minnesota, Charles Schulz!!!
Xoxo
Gem

knotsaway 38 Reviews 870 reads

posted 9 years ago

4 / 26

And just for people who do stuff like this...

... a little song that seems appropriate.

Related Link: If I only had a brain...

DecriminalizeIt 824 reads

posted 9 years ago

5 / 26

Peanuts statues link eom

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vorlon 119 Reviews 604 reads

posted 9 years ago

6 / 26

This sort of thing just keeps happening

We all need to remember that not everyone that reads reviews and posts is friendly to our P4P world. Some information needs to be kept non-specific.

crsm27 32 Reviews 821 reads

posted 9 years ago

7 / 26

So Sorry this happened.

Men and Ladies....

Please post examples of how you would want "locations" described.

I am sure we all know what to do. But some are not too bright.

So lets say someone was in a hotel by the Mall of America....
Say... Nice easy location Near MOA.

Lets say they are in a downtown location lets say near Target Field....
Say... Nice location in the Downtown Area!!

Lets say they have a location in Edina....
Say.... nice easy location with lots of parking in Edina.

Remy and others..... IS that ok to post like that??? That is if you want reviews.

Also guys... please ask the lady if they want to be reviewed or not. Some women don't want reviews where others thrived on them.... and others don't care. But always ask!!!

Please give other examples to help the mentally challenged out a little bit.

knotsaway 38 Reviews 606 reads

posted 9 years ago

8 / 26

Mentions of a suburb may be too specific.

Suggestion: if you don't see a city (like Edina) mentioned in the provider's ads or profile, don't mention it! Keep location info as general as possible. For example, instead of "Edina" how about "southwest suburb", or instead of "near MOA" how about "south suburb"? And never give ANY details that could potentially identify a building, or even a street. (I've reported reviews that were so specific that the location could be pinpointed to a particular building or even a floor of a building.)

And good point re asking about reviewing (and I'll add shilling to that, as some providers want to keep a low profile)... unless it's a rip-off or dangerous situation of course.

vantheman666 11 Reviews 737 reads

posted 9 years ago

9 / 26

What I can't figure out

is how reviews with these kinds of details get past TER admin. I'm continuously made to modify my reviews because I score too high, but some idiot can put in the incall location, and the review gets posted?!

FWIW, Remy, I don't view providers as pieces of ass, cum receptacles, or any of that crap. Maybe I'm in the minority, but I do care about all of you (and especially the ladies I've been blessed to make connections with). However, I'm not feeling insulted, as I know you're pissed off, as you have a right to be under the circumstances. I hope your day goes better, and I hope my fellow hobbyists remember to be responsible with the information they post

xoxoxo
vantheman666

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 490 reads

posted 9 years ago

10 / 26

Thank you!!!! Re: Peanuts statues link

Hopefully these are easy access to travel to since I do not drive lol

mbshannon 18 Reviews 599 reads

posted 9 years ago

11 / 26

Re: What I can't figure out

+ 1 so sorry this continues to occur. mbs

quoderat1790 28 Reviews 699 reads

posted 9 years ago

12 / 26

Don't worry...

After that post, you won't have to worry about this "gent." And probably a few others who have been consistently respectful and cautious reviewers and posters who you just lumped in with all the bad actors.

Dr.BudGreen 10 Reviews 662 reads

posted 9 years ago

13 / 26

I hope you contacted the reviewer

In case he doesn't read this board.

quoderat1790 28 Reviews 583 reads

posted 9 years ago

14 / 26

Re: Don't worry...

I'm not saying she is. Some reviewers are careless about being too specific about a provider's location. That has to be frustrating for providers.

But her post, seeing as how it's going to be seen by everyone who visits the MN Board, seems to be addressed to everyone on the MN Board, and not everyone on the board does what she said. I checked all my reviews to make sure I haven't.

If her tone is intended to be a joke, it didn't work. If that's not her general opinion about TER members, she really made it seem to me like it was, and I would never see a provider knowing her default opinion of me was utter contempt.

vorlon 119 Reviews 523 reads

posted 9 years ago

15 / 26

I don't even mention the specific city

Just the general location within the metro area.

BunnyPhallus 484 reads

posted 9 years ago

16 / 26

Re: Don't worry...

Agree 100%!

Posted By: quoderat1790

I'm not saying she is. Some reviewers are careless about being too specific about a provider's location. That has to be frustrating for providers.

But her post, seeing as how it's going to be seen by everyone who visits the MN Board, seems to be addressed to everyone on the MN Board, and not everyone on the board does what she said. I checked all my reviews to make sure I haven't.

If her tone is intended to be a joke, it didn't work. If that's not her general opinion about TER members, she really made it seem to me like it was, and I would never see a provider knowing her default opinion of me was utter contempt.

narcisserotoid 24 Reviews 556 reads

posted 9 years ago

17 / 26

They only have a "Like" button so . . .

I have to reply and say that I love this post, RemyLively

IvanaHump 450 reads

posted 9 years ago

18 / 26

Re: Don't worry...

Van, Quod, Bunny and BudGreen have said all the things I was thinking.
Talon gets ripped on all the time for lumping all the providers into his own way of seeing them, and that's how Remy sounds about the men.

It's basic common sense that certain information should be kept quiet, common sense just isn't so common anymore.
I think it's refreshing to see real people speaking their mind, so that's nice.

remylively See my TER Reviews 702 reads

posted 9 years ago

19 / 26

Ahem. To clarify...

I love my work & the vast majority of my clients. If I didn't enjoy this job, you can be certain I would not still be doing it after 12 years. That said, I get very few clients who are TER regulars or refer to themselves as "hobbyists," as though they collect rare stamps or ships in bottles or something. Quite honestly, I prefer to keep it that way.

It is one thing to check out someone's reviews or read a few board posts before contacting a new provider. That does not bother me. That is a reality of my work; I accept it. I don't even mind the occasional respectful, discreet review -- although TER's piggish requirements make such a thing almost impossible.

However! You are correct that I have very little regard for the review-addicted, serial board-posting, delusional, gaslighting, special-seeking, whiny man-child who, without fail, introduces himself to me as a "respectful, romantic gent" ... then proceeds to disrespect my time, violate my boundaries, & demean my labor & body in an obscene review to follow.

Do I lump you in with that group by default? I don't know, because I no longer spend enough time here to know who the most disgusting offenders are, aside from Talon (which should go without saying). It's unfortunate, but fair, if you decide not to see me based on my post. Regardless, here is my free advice for you, & for any other decent men floating in the ocean of filth that is TER: your actions speak louder than words. Rather than insisting you're a "gent," just BE one.