Guy: Nice pics on backpage.  Do you have any reviews I can check?
Gal: Thank you.  New...no reviews
Guy: Maybe consider joining www.theeroticreview.com......that way guys will feel safer seeing you
Gal: Thanks for the tip
Guy: Welcome.  For sure I'm tempted to see you.  I'm just careful about le, pimps or bad service
Gal: Me too
Guy: LOL.  I'm too old for drama.  Really like your pictures.  So maybe I'll take the risk of seeing you this weekend
Gal: Sounds great
Guy: What's your rates?  I'm downtown
Gal:Maplewood for me 125 half 175 full
Guy: So you're only doing incall
Gal: Yes
Guy: Just checked your ad again.  Noticed the no texting request. Sorry I see I fucked up Maplewood, huh? Well I'll think on it.  Would help to know what your restrictions are.
Gal: Dont care for anal
Guy: Ha.  Maybe on our fifth date. I'll call you to make sure you're good with uncovered french and that an hour is a full hour.  Plus I got to check the boards to make sure maplewood isn't hot like fridley was.
Gal: Hour is full
Guy: Not trying to give you a hard time.  I've just learned bp is 80% bs but 20% can work out.  So tolerate me a bit more.  Almost sure I'll see you
Gal: Hope so sweetie

Next day, ad is gone from backpage........pics reappear in body rubs section, without the phone.

What do you think?

Every answer was less than a real sentence.... how does that come across as so sweet? Did you speak in person? Has she answered the same number or is it disconnected? I agree, probably LE, or she got annoyed and/or scared of you.

I always get concerned when ads go up and then down.  At a minimum, I want to see someone with some kind of ad history even if she doesn't have reviews.

Honestly no offense intended, obviously one need to do their homework. But, no wonder providers hate texts.  Can you imagine how many times a day they have to have this conversation via text?  

Personally, I wouldn't text like that.  If it WAS LE, and I didn't realize it and went ahead with the appointment, I'd sure as hell hate to have THAT text exchange admitted into evidence.

The fact that the ad disappeared and then she reappeared in body rubs section suggests that YOU spooked her, not that she was LE.  You said you're "careful about le" and she responded, "Me too."  If she were LE, I'd have to think she would have been more careful with this response, since it might be construed as entrapment or a denial that she's LE.  

In any event, it's always important to give the benefit of the doubt to playing safe, but I don't see anything in her side of the conversation that suggests she was LE.  Personally, I would never have a conversation of this length or detail.  I stick with reviewed providers and only ask if they are available; if so, we set a time and place.

........the gal referenced Maplewood.  Get it?

Just trying to help.

LE or not, I wouldn't go near that.

This IS the #1 reason why I dislike texts! I stopped responding to any texts that talk about anything too descriptive a long time ago!


However, I will respond to simple messages.
Examples:
Please check your email.
Please listen to your voicemail but don't call me back until ____ time/day.
What beverage would you like me to bring?
I will be 5 minutes late.
Thank you for your time today.

STAY SAFE!!!!


Xoxo,
Whitney