Posted By: woodchip
here I fear. Vorlon seemed to have about the best answer that I agree with. Not surprising as he has been well respected here for many years.
Langeweile, after reading your previous post and thread that got a bit out of hand I really toiled over posting the rest of this as I fear it may be taken wrong or in the wrong spirit by some but here it goes.
I've really become NOT a fan of glamour shots. Been burned way to many times to even count. I say all this below sincerely while trying to be as tactful as possible: If someone window shopping finds that the actual item is off from whats in the window or has major blemishes made to look perfect, there is going to be disappointment for most no matter how nice of a person they are. Belinda mentions taking off 40lbs, thats extreme and "fake" in my view. Even taking off 10-15 would be considered a major misrepresentation for me.
For me there have been many times I should have just turned around and walked. My problem is, I'm a kind and caring human being that is concerned about peoples feelings. I'll let my own feelings be hurt as to not cause pain to others so I suck up the disappointment and make the best of it...nerves also play a factor. Its one if the reasons I write very few reviews. After many years experience, I try now to limit my exposure to those situations but still wind up disappointed on occasion.
My rules at this point are:
1. If a certain popular photographer is used, I automatically pass unless there are other non glam shots out there. Twitter or Facebook sometimes provide real accurate info. I work in photoshop so I can tell shopped photos easily but there is no way to tell how far it went so best to pass if not verified by other means.
2. If the photo is not a clear representation of the body type, I pass. I figure its blurry or in a certain pose for a reason. The ladies know what we want/like better than we do most times, they are amazing creatures .....most times we are driven by impulse triggers of visual things that if they do not match, ends in disappointment.
3. If the reviews are all 9-9 or 10-10's and there is nothing but glam shots, its really going to be a crap shoot. If I cannot find further evidence the pictures match reality, I pass.
Now keep in mind that all this is based on the fact that I am looking for a certain body type and look, that is what gets me going. For others its something else, I get that and its obvious in all the reviews. I have had 11 for looks, real model types that got me so wound up I thought it was over...but then they opened their mouth for 10 minutes and I left disappointed. On the other side, I rarely if ever go from disappointed at the door because of misrepresented pics and leave fully satisfied or wanting more. If there is one thing about this hobby its that there is something for everyone, finding it is still the hard part.
Langeweile, I have seen some of the ladies on your review list in the past. I think you do a great job in reviews and your opinion, clearly not malicious in intent is the entire reason for this site to begin with. All who participate should respect that fact.
Peace and Happiness to all!