Things Have Been Dead Around Here!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

With the exception of a few faithful……What’s wrong with you folks?  I’ve been lurking in the background, and according to my precise judgment I’ve come to the conclusion that the Twins’ game yesterday (Saturday) leant more excitement than the MN discussion board lately.

Pop Quiz:

Do you prefer the young and energetic, or the seasoned sure to get your’s who takes it slower?  Variation in between?  Explain your answer.

I want to know about the hobbyists who gets to rate a providers looks, but may himself be a bit out of shape?  What’s up with that?  How would a hobbyist feel if the “goils” had a forum in which we empirically rated you, and it was a determinant factor of whether we saw you or not?  I will grant that the “goils” should engage in truth-in-advertising.  The latter includes no bait & switch tactics, TGTBT, and “forgetting” to mention that “we” used to weigh 120 lbs, but now “we’re” tipping the scales at 190 or above.  LOL  Please leave out the fact that you may be paying…………We pay too!  We just can’t enunciate it for all to see.

In address the NCNS problem…… It truly goes both ways.  The double booking from a provider stance is in my opinion inexcusable.  A back-up plan for hobbyists is more in order.  Aren’t there more providers AND hobbyists out there who still believes that your word is your bond?  Many of us truly do believe it, and abide by it.  If you don’t show……lesson learned, and good luck making another appointment is my credo.  Last-minute garbage requests notwithstanding.

I much prefer a more mature seasoned provider over a young energetic one. I like to take it slow and be seduced by her.

As far as rating looks go, if you want to pay ME for my services, you can rate me however you like!

1.  I tend to prefer younger escorts; it's just the way I am.  When considering who to see, I look at a variety of factors: performance, looks, reliability, and rate.

2.  Regarding looks, I don't believe you can remove the question of who is paying because it is central to the question.  We are paying for your services and a big part of that is the escort's looks.  Regardless of your costs, you are not handing over $s to the guys who come to see you.  At least that has never happened to me!

That being said, if the escorts want to have rate their clients by their looks, hey that's your choice.

Marie  In a way a provider can rate a hobbiest.  IT"s called a reference.  granted not the most efficent method but still a pipeline.  I have had ladies tell me what other ladies have told them about me.

But you can't take out the fact that we - the hobbyists - are the ones that are paying for the service and one of the criteria that we may or may not choose to decide who we see are the looks of a certian provider. I, and I'm sure, many others put more weight on other factors - such as type of service, availabilty, location, cost, etc. and looks can be the tie breaker.

Escorts of all ages, races, body types appeal to me.  Its the variety that keeps the hobby interesting over time.  There is certainly sometimes a trade-off between experience and the youthful hottie appeal but then a few of the younger ones have surprised me that way, and on the flip side the experience level of some mature ladies is offset by a lack of energy and passion.  I don't think you can stereotype ladies that easily based on age.  And I also do not believe age necessarily is a tradeoff for looks and body either.  

For me, while looks and a nice figure are important, I look at personality, attitude, and sexual passion.  My favs over the years have ranged from 18 to 50 in age.  

One particular factor has been constant with those I have seen regularly - they are not high-volume.

When you start paying me to screw you then you can rate my looks.

Many have age limits
Some have race requirements
By setting their rates some clients are eliminated
References allow ladies to get the inside scoop.

What do I think of ladies judging the men they see?  It is a way of life, get used to it, free or not, people are picky by nature.

My only request, if you don't want to be with me, tell me!  Don't give me less than your best just for the money...too often, the money is the reason and it shows.

My experiences have been from 19 to 58
Some good and some bad at all age levels
Some good and some bad at all looks
Price has never guaranteed me anything

The person is what has made the session memorable one way or the other.

NCNS, ladies to me twice, me NEVER!

Breakdown

2% unbelievably great experience(hard to duplicate even with same person)
10% can't go wrong with a return
10% othing to write home about, but nothing negative about it so a return could happen
56% Going through the motions, no regrets for one visit
10% Just didn't click
10% In it for the money and it shows
2% Don't like what they do, wish they weren't there, but desperate situation dictates

Who will be the next lady in that top 2%?  IDK, how old she'll be or what she will look like, but she will take my breathe away from beginning to end.  And I can't WAIT! :P

I'm a little confused about the questioning on appearance.  What happened, Marie, that brings the question up, if anything?

I get why ladies might be interested in rating the clients.  We may pay, but who has the final right to refusal?  Has anyone been turned away at the door for no apparent reason?  Or perhaps you were refused subsequent visits after a first visit to a provider?  (I hope not, since I'm no prize!)  Since that refusal would probably happen before or just during the payment, I'm really curious to know if that's happened.

From my standpoint, I try to take care of myself the best I can.  For me, enjoyment is 2-sided (or 3 or 4 or 5, god help me someday I swear), and if I'm repellent to the provider, it will show -- I'll see it without question, and then the value of the date will bottom out.  Oh well, I did the best I could with what I got.    If I'm tolerable (palatable?), then maybe we'll have a good time!  I get it.

I can see where the guys are coming from re: the donation.  But I can somewhat see your point too.  Guess I'm sounding it out, hoping I'll be able to draw my line.  Nope.  Really curious and interested in the responses, good stuff.

My $$$ makes me look like George Clooney for one hour.

Marie, IDK about most guys, but spring is a very busy time of year for me. It also doesn't help that my short list is loaded with fantastic women and I rarely have the luxury of planning in advance. Maybe a M&G would help spark some new business (I could not attend the last one).

takingmytime, 78% of your encounters were substandard? Wow, hope you have better luck in the future.

Although pretty wrapping paper does entice and excite or senses, what do you do with the gift, once you open it up??  I prefer substance over packaging.  What's on the outside is nothing but a dwelling place for the soul residing inside.  Now, THAT's where the meat is!!

The question is: Who will I have a good time with? That motivates the question of what is "good."

Some ppl just want a perky young body to fantasize about while they have sex with it. Personality, hygiene, etc. don't even enter in to it. Sort of like they are masturbating, but using a person to do it. Like they are having sex with a body, not a person. I am not being critical, just making a statement.

Some ppl want to have sex with a person, and are not terribly concerned about the body. Keep in mind that how you keep your body tells a lot about you as a person, though. An 18 yo will seldom if ever manage to have the depth of personality of a 45 yo. Not casting aspersions on younger providers, it's just a question of time and life experience. Ppl who have lived longer have more of it (usually). Can't get it from a book.

And of course, nobody is going to have a good time if they don't physically get together.

In rating appearance I'm mostly concerned with whether or not the provider's own description and pics match what I got. At the risk of commoditizing too much, truth in advertising is key.

Otherwise it's entirely subjective. One man's beauty is another man's turn-off. Sometimes I might want pure eye candy, other times expertise. Personally I like a wide range of body types and personalities, so all I ask for is honesty in that regard.

In a way we clients rate ourselves for you, in what we say -- and how we say it -- in our reviews. You can tell a lot about a guy in reading a review, not only their sexual likes and dislikes but whether or not they'll see you as an object or a person, if they're at all interested in making it enjoyable for you, etc. In the end, it's your business decision to make, the transaction goes both ways.

I have refused two gents.  The first I'd seen  several times and each time he had gotten steadily more aggressive to the point things being unbearably painful.  He called again to come see me.  I told him on the phone that I could no longer see him.  He accepted my refusal with no ill will.  Sometimes it is best to part ways. The second guy I refused to see because  things didn't quite look "normal or healthy", if you know what I mean.   Nothing is worth my safety.    

I'm not one to judge a man on his looks, size, ethnicity and sufercial things like that.  So, I really don't have a need to rate my clients. If they treat me with respect and are clean that is the most important things to me.

Variety is a wonderful thing, and can throw you a curve at any given moment. Cases in point: There was one young lady who I saw several times. She was exactly half my age, and we had more in common than most of the mature ladies that I've seen. We could be together for hours, and never run out of things to talk about. On the other hand, there is another lady who was nearly sixty when I saw her last year. She was, without a doubt, the most playful lady I've ever been with. We spent the entire evening together, had dinner, and wound up in the pool, at a nudist resort. I can't wait to get back to see her again.

Looks? Of course looks are important, but not number one on my list. Personality is what will get my attention first. That's why I spend so much time wandering around on these boards.

And by the way, I have been rated on my looks. Three different ladies have told me that I look like Charles Manson.

Breakdown

2% unbelievably great experience(hard to duplicate even with same person)
10% can't go wrong with a return
10% othing to write home about, but nothing negative about it so a return could happen
56% Going through the motions, no regrets for one visit
10% Just didn't click
10% In it for the money and it shows
2% Don't like what they do, wish they weren't there, but desperate situation dictates


I assume you were looking at this yes?  In order to get 78% bad, the entire middle group would have been bad, no?

In fact if you read that middle group of 56% it quite clearly states NO REGRETS for a one time visit.  I have a good time, but nothing really stands out to make me compelled to return.

Simply stated, sex can be primal at times and even ladies in the "didn't click" and "in it for the meny" catagories at time just get caught up in the sex and moments of good happen, but the catagory seems to allow for that gray cloud to dampen the good parts.

The only real regrets happen to be the 2% on the bottom where it was quite simply...wtf was I thinking and how could I have possibly have been so lacking in my research to miss the bad time lurking!  Little head did the thinking and big head kicked my ass all the way back to my car afterwards!

"Keep in mind that how you keep your body tells a lot about you as a person, though."

I don't want to beat a man with a stick over a miss understanding!  LOL Kidding, just wondering where you were headed with that statement.

I am with Alantra on this one, If we don't have a connection, it doesn't matter how young or beautiful a woman is, it makes for a bad time. I will give more consideration to a mature woman over a youngster any day. I had a date with a stunner once but there was no connection so I couldn't wait for the "date" to end. My two cents.  There is something for every taste out there.

Alantra you are right on the money (for me anyway)!

Just that grooming, physical conditioning, hygiene, etc. say a lot about you and how you perceive yourself. Your choice of clothes does as well.

true dat

My only comment, be careful judging a book by its cover!

Hygiene is pretty much a standard in most social groups but the rest purely used by superficial type people.

Easy for you to say; you're gorgeous.