Who's a good provider for BDSM?

Very few providers/escorts/massagewomen/ can actually provide a decent BDSM experience.  Some say they can, but, true Dominatrix are more than just an escort with a whip and a few ropes.  There are only three or four  Professional Dungeons in the Twin Cities.  The real ones are pretty easy to find, and often advertise on BP.  The real Dommes on Backpage will generally have a link to their website with pics of their dungeons and more information.  Many will list their specific services.  There are lots of women who claim to be Dommes, but they have no equipment, no experience, and no true Dominating attitude.  Of course, I have no idea what you think BDSM is.  Maybe you are looking for something a bit more vanilla or just some rough and dirty sex.  

I was there with a client & had the time of my life! If only providers could submit reviews. 10/10!

Sorry to break it to you, for what you crave from start to finish there are no
outstanding providers such as on the east and west cost. NO Even Close

Although I don't work in a "real dungeon," I have many skills and more than four years of experience in BDSM activities as a Top/Dom/Mistress.  
 Flogging (horse hair or leather?), sensory deprivation, spanking (OTK) strap on play, prostate massage, fisting, bondage, role play, watersports, CBT.......all negotiated and consensual.  
   
 There are things to be enjoyed that a "real dungeon" doesn't provide  
   
 Spanks and licks,  
 Ms Sassy Red

You are correct, that you can provide some things NOT found at any local dungeon.  And, you obviously have the experience, toys, knowledge and attitude to provide a great BDSM experience, as well as a provider experience.  In my original post, I said that there are FEW providers with your multiple talents.  But, if a man is looking for a reasonably "sure thing bdsm experience", a local dungeon is probably a safe bet.  Maybe not as sexy or sensual as you, but certainly they are  all about Dominance/submission/BDSM/fetishplay.

I've seen dommes in NYC; Lotus's dungeon makes any of the four or five I've seen in NY pale by comparison, and in terms of skills and experience, she's at least as good as East Coast dommes...frankly, I'd say she's better.

How do I get in touch when I don't have reference but looking for BDSm?

Posted By: SassyRed

Although I don't work in a "real dungeon," I have many skills and more than four years of experience in BDSM activities as a Top/Dom/Mistress.  
  Flogging (horse hair or leather?), sensory deprivation, spanking (OTK) strap on play, prostate massage, fisting, bondage, role play, watersports, CBT.......all negotiated and consensual.    
     
  There are things to be enjoyed that a "real dungeon" doesn't provide  
     
  Spanks and licks,  
  Ms Sassy Red

If you're considering Mistress Lotus or one of her associate mistresses, you will not need a reference because they do not engage in any sexual activities.  Take this with a grain of salt, but that's the word.

Been seeing Mistress Sharina for several years and she is wonderful.

Her website plays seductive music immediately starting when you click on the link.

The best thing about Red is that I trust her to safely pull me outside my comfort zone.  Wait, that's the second best thing.  The best thing about Red is the way she looks in a pair of tight jeans.

I'd like to know the name and artist who's playing that music on Sharina's website.

a fine look in spandex too; not to mention naked, of course

Sassy,

Oh my ,I broke a light sweat just reading this- PM sent! haha, J. xxxoo