Well, I was going to TOFTT. I was hesitant because she had no reviews and her pics did not show her face and perhaps her weight might be heavier than she stated. I called and she answered in the second ring. I did ask her several questions, and I think I might've spooked her thinking that I was LE. But the questions that I had was pretty standard, such as rates (she did not list that on her ads--don't you hate it though when a provider does not list the rates? How much am I supposed to bring? $50, $150, $300 or $1000?), whether she was GFE, for which she paused for about a second or so and answered "no". I told her that the reason I asked that kind of questions was because I had been burned before.
In any case, I told her that I would take a chance on her and would meet up for about 1 hour from now so that I had a chance to clean up, shower and went to the bank to get cash. She gave me a general direction and when I got there, gave her a call. The "general direction" is basically an intersection of 2 roads -- 35 and CR 70. So off to the races. About 1 hour and 5 minutes after my call, I drove all the way to the intersection, gave her a call, but guess what? She did not answer her flicking phone! I called about 3 or 4 times and even left a voice-mail that I was there. I sat at the McDonald's parking and waited for her call, I received none, I even sent a text to her to express my frustration to have me driven all the way down there for nothing and wasting my time and gas. Of course, I did not get any response. Don't you hate it thought when a provider does it to you?
Ok, that is strike one for me. But my batting average was going down from there... I just went home.
The next day I trolled BP again to look for others and interested in two others. Called the first one (Brooke), no answer, but I left a message. Did not get a call back, Strike two. Waited for about 1 hour and contact the next one (Ashley - phone ending 5401). This one picked up and answered the phone. Great, I thought, we have finally gotten somewhere. We exchanged conversation with several phone calls. She told me to get to an intersection and called for final direction. So off to the races again. I drove all the way to an intersection, which is located by 94 and Snelling. Got there, called her up. But guess what??? She did not answer her phone. Waited at a parking lot-- coincidentally, it was also at a McDonald's, for about 1/2 hour, and left frustrated. WTF??? Don't they want my $? Strike THREE!
But in the hobby, you have unlimited strikes. If all else fails, keep trying. And that is what I did. I contacted another provider, this one named Ashlee. Made a call and finally met this provider in St.L.Park. Bingo.