I was wondering, what are the guys opinions on overnight rates (let's say $2000 for 12 hrs)?  Would you call them ridiculous or a steal or something in between?

The reason I ask is because depending on how you figure it, there are a lot of ways it could break down.  So, do most of you guys think of it as:

1) $167/hr (a steal since it would normally be about be $300/hr for the girl of your choice).
2) $500/hr since you can't really count the 8 hours that both of you are asleep (ridiculous since that means an overnight is actually more expensive than a daytime date.
3) $300/hr for the 4 hours you are awake and only $100/hr for the pleasure of sleeping next to a beautiful woman.
4) or some other option.

And for the ladies...if you feel comfortable telling, how do you view the situation?  And just out of curiosity, how often do you have an overnight booking?

My personal opinion, just do it once.  After you spend 12+ hours with the right lady, you are in a position to analyze the cost effective aspect of the date.

I enjoy out of town weekends, try 48+ hours with the right lady and you will really understand.  It can be fantastic!

You may have picked up on the key component to having a great time THE RIGHT LADY!!! If you don't know her real well, you could be in for a very long painful time.

JMHO

I think of it from the viewpoint of everything she and I will do while we are together.  Done right and with the right person, it's spectacular!

do a cost analyzes of this hobby.  It like any other hobby in that you always spend way too much on it.  You should just enjoy it, don't over think everything.

I have heard from some of the ladies, that if they see a regular and if he could afford it they prefer it. It's easier money for them.

For those of us that hunt and fish this hobby may be cheaper.

The one an only time I did this, back when I did all my thinking with the little head, when I woke up in the morning she was gone along with all my cash that I though was well hidden.

If you are gonna go this route, its not such a good idea unless you know the lady quite well.  And vice versa for her.  Unless you sleep with your eyes open.

You didn't follow the golden rule of only taking into an appointment what you are willing to lose!  Shame on you!  That little head will get you in trouble every time.

Please take into consideration that when you meet with the right lady, perhaps an ATF, there is more to your time together than pouncing on each other and being concerned about not being about to do so when asleep. Falling asleep with someone I truly enjoy is the best. I am not completely asleep as I am aware of the other person’s body, yet I am at ease. I feel the comfort of a favs body against mine. Spooning can be a wonderful thing and falling asleep to a nice backrub can be even better than sex. Also, waking up in the middle of the night to grinding on each other due to pure attractiveness is so sexy. That is a steal! Waking up to the body of someone you enjoy next to you is worth everything. It feels so good. And morning sex is quite nice. Besides the bad breath, there is nothing better! Xoxo, Giamarie

To be honest, if I spent that much for an overnight I'd take a long nap beforehand, stay up as long as the equipment stayed up and then send her on her way.

For that kind of money sleep is not an option

Nearly all of my overnight date experiences have been with really special guys who cared about me deeply.  Guys who go for overnight dates are often quite different than guys who go for one hour dates.  From my experience, the type of guy who appreciates overnight dates is the type of guy who will appreciate a qualitative (not quantitative), emotional experience.  My "overnight" gentlemen have mostly been highly romantic and sentimental.  They appreciate the intimacy of the situation, above all else.

I know guys want "bang for their buck" these days, but, you should not think about overnight dates in the same manner you would think about a one hour date.  You should not go on an overnight date because you are looking for a "good deal."  You should go on an overnight date because you feel compelled, because you are smitten, and because you want to sweep her off her feet.

XOXO,
Kim

Say you go on a deluxe marlin fishing trip for 4 days that costs $500 a day. Say you catch 4 fish (you did really well) , that's $500 dollars a fish. You also had the pleasure of being on a nice boat, in beautiful weather, etc...
In an extended date you can only look at the total cost.
As in any hobby you are in IT for the joy of being in IT.

As to your question, how do I look at it.
I look at it as being a bargain to be with a beautiful woman that will rock my world.

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You should never, never, never do an overnight with a provider that you do not already know quite well, are familiar with and VERY comfortable with.  Indeed, I would say you should never do an overnight unless you and the provider have a mutual liking and respect for each other - even affection, within the boundaries of the hobby.

That being said, if you have that established, and you have the money to pay for it, then how it gets divvied up is of no consequence.

#1 because I cannot afford such a luxury. Unless, of course, I take in one of those DR resorts.
#2 because I require very little sleep. A long nap in the pm would keep me up well into the morning

The only thing I need spread are legs.

It's not just about how often you will have sex; it's about enjoying the whole experience.  When you are with a lady with whom that works for the both of you then you really know what GFE means.

Cost you an hourly rate of just $11.42, Even by assuming you are a millionaire. The math: $1000000 diveded by 2 person after divorce = $500,000/10years/365days in a year/12 hours of overnight in a day = $11.42/hour. Not to mention the level of "emotional connection" and "chemistry" you 2 already had.... As a bonus, breakfast is served after the overnight.