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Re: Thanks For the Perspective
jlart123 36 Reviews 4600 reads
posted
1 / 10

the provider cut my session short...WTF?

Saw an ad for a girl who's in town visiting and decided to call the number. Set up a time and showed up at the incall location with the correct amount of cash. I went in the room and after getting comfortable we got down to business. About halfway into the session(roughly 30 min) I came but not as intense or heavy as I normally do so I didn't mention anything to her and kept stroking.  When I pulled out to switch positions she noticed some white residue inside the condom that had started to make its way down to my shaft.  She asked me did I come and I told her that I believed it was precum but didn't think it was a big deal because I had booked an hour and you get 2 pops right? WRONG! She then went into the bathroom to get some wipes and while there I heard her take a phone call and when she came back she questioned me again did I cum and I gave the same reply. Then she said well I'm not trying to rush you out of here but I've got someone else on the way and he said that he would be here in ten minutes.  I kind of looked her at dumbfounded and asked what time it was and since I knew an hour had not passed. I then asked her kindly if we could either finish the session or could she refund me some of my money to reflect the half hour price.  She opted for the latter and reached in her purse and gave me $50.  I told her how disappointed I was and how rare it is for me to book hour sessions as my money normally limits me to only hhr when I do hobby and she said If I wanted to come back later for a half hour I could and she would knock $50 off the rate. I thought that was a reasonable gesture and since I really had no choice put my clothes on and left.  Just wanted to get thoughts and opinions from the board.  To my hobbyists would you go and see her again? And to my providers is this normal? Have you ever done this? What would be a reason for stopping a session short? I can sort of understand her logic financially one client one hour = 200 and two clients in one hour = 300 but damn...

AsantSurel 4488 reads
posted
2 / 10

I'm pretty new to this but I think what you did was dangerous to the lady! And 2 pops is NEVER guaranteed also you lied to her I personally would NOT have been as nice as she was about the situation.


Posted By: jlart123
the provider cut my session short...WTF?

Saw an ad for a girl who's in town visiting and decided to call the number. Set up a time and showed up at the incall location with the correct amount of cash. I went in the room and after getting comfortable we got down to business. About halfway into the session(roughly 30 min) I came but not as intense or heavy as I normally do so I didn't mention anything to her and kept stroking.  When I pulled out to switch positions she noticed some white residue inside the condom that had started to make its way down to my shaft.  She asked me did I come and I told her that I believed it was precum but didn't think it was a big deal because I had booked an hour and you get 2 pops right? WRONG! She then went into the bathroom to get some wipes and while there I heard her take a phone call and when she came back she questioned me again did I cum and I gave the same reply. Then she said well I'm not trying to rush you out of here but I've got someone else on the way and he said that he would be here in ten minutes.  I kind of looked her at dumbfounded and asked what time it was and since I knew an hour had not passed. I then asked her kindly if we could either finish the session or could she refund me some of my money to reflect the half hour price.  She opted for the latter and reached in her purse and gave me $50.  I told her how disappointed I was and how rare it is for me to book hour sessions as my money normally limits me to only hhr when I do hobby and she said If I wanted to come back later for a half hour I could and she would knock $50 off the rate. I thought that was a reasonable gesture and since I really had no choice put my clothes on and left.  Just wanted to get thoughts and opinions from the board.  To my hobbyists would you go and see her again? And to my providers is this normal? Have you ever done this? What would be a reason for stopping a session short? I can sort of understand her logic financially one client one hour = 200 and two clients in one hour = 300 but damn...

redhot See my TER Reviews 4789 reads
posted
3 / 10

Asant is correct re: continuing after you came in the condom.  That is improper condom usage and will lead to failure of protection in multiple ways.  Anyone engaged in sex with multiple partners should be following safer sex guidelines.  

http://www.cdc.gov/condomeffectiveness/latex.htm

It's hard saying why she got rid of you, but coming in the condom and continuing *could* certainly have been one reason.  From a risk reduction perspective, some sex workers will avoid clients (if they can) that engage in risky behavior or do not seem to know how to stay safe.  A worker can sometimes feel that puts them at greater risk for what that client might give them from their (perhaps unsafe) dalliances elsewhere.  

Some workers might take the time to educate, but not all are of that mindset.  For some this is simply a job, and they are trying to do it with the least amount of risk/stress possible.  

She could have just been scooting you out the door after one round though also...but given the other factor, it's hard to know.  Why you would consider revisiting at all...I'm not sure.  Sounds like you didn't get off on a great start IMO.  

xoMegan

jlart123 36 Reviews 4850 reads
posted
4 / 10

To Asant...seriously? LOL. I'm curious to hear how you would have handled the situation.

Megan thanks for the insight. I am rather new to condom usage.(I am actually relieved when the lady puts it on) Most of my sexual experience came in a 3 year relationship that only ended a year ago and during that time we did not use them at all. I guess sometimes I have I hard time knowing if I came or not especially If I try to stop myself at the brink and it kind of "slips out."

Pirate2008 8 Reviews 5406 reads
posted
5 / 10

I have never had this happen to me. While two pops is never guaranteed, you did book an hour and I think that you are entitled to what you paid for, her time.  You may not be entitled to a second pop, but you would be entitled to a massage, or any other mutually agreed upon activity, for the rest of the time.  Having said that, it is not unusual for me to leave 5-10 minutes early as a courtesy for her to get ready for her next customer, especially if it is one of my regular ladies.  Given the circumstances, I think that her solution was a reasonable one, but I would not repeat with a lady who had someone else arriving well before my time was up.

AsantSurel 4668 reads
posted
6 / 10

I would have been extremely upset and would not have offered you any $$ back and for sure would not have ever offered you a repeat session and then I would have blacklisted you for it. Other ladies might not come right out and say it but I know for a fact there are 100s if not 1000s of ladies in this business who agree with me.

There is one thing she can NEVER replace and that is her life, and you tried to put that life in danger.

                   You can laugh like it is funny but it is NO way funny at all!!

I personally don't believe she had another client on the way up, I think she called someone and told them what you and they advised her to get you out, so she used that as an excuse to do so to avoid confrontation with you. I do NOT know this for sure. I do NOT know you or the lady in question, but whomever she is I support her 100% in getting rid of you. And I would even bet that she would NOT  do a repeat session with you, if you were to call her again.

But what YOU did is still so wrong and I hope other ladies that see your post think really long and hard about NOT seeing you if you were to call them.

Posted By: jlart123
To Asant...seriously? LOL. I'm curious to hear how you would have handled the situation.

High-Plains-Drifter 4924 reads
posted
7 / 10

She wanted you out before the time was up. Strike one! She started taking phone calls on YOUR time. Strike two! Badgering over whether you came or not. Strike three! She's history, next, move on.

If you would have came withing 10 minutes, she would have been trying to get you out in the same way. That was her concern, not a safety issue. If it was a safety issue, she would have offered you a fresh condom, not kick you out. Period, the end!  

Make sure you post a review. You should really be naming her on this thread to warn your fellow hobbyists of her unprofessional conduct.  

 

wnl4gt 6 Reviews 3456 reads
posted
8 / 10

Sounds like you got what you paid for and booked a low cost high volume provider. Maybe you'd be better off playing less oftenand spending more per encounter and raising the level of service.

On the other hand she was right to send you on your way since you came in a condom and didn't seem to care if cum oozed into her pussy, dangerous and inconsiderate.

jlart123 36 Reviews 4014 reads
posted
9 / 10

I agree. "improper etiquette" was commited by both parties which cancel each other out. I stayed for 30 she got paid for 30 and I got my nut.  I never heard back from her or tried to set up another appointment. She's visiting anyway so I see no need to call her out by name especially since I saw two of her friends previously and enjoyed those sessions. Rest assured I will never make the condom mistake again and I will ask about 2 pops before I hand her the $ next time if I book an hour.

Posted By: wnl4gt
Sounds like you got what you paid for and booked a low cost high volume provider. Maybe you'd be better off playing less oftenand spending more per encounter and raising the level of service.

On the other hand she was right to send you on your way since you came in a condom and didn't seem to care if cum oozed into her pussy, dangerous and inconsiderate.

soflaguy44 34 Reviews 5920 reads
posted
10 / 10

Usually, when you book an hour, it means an hour.  This is from the time you step into the the room, until the time you step out.  If you are young and multi-orgasmic, make sure you tell her up front that you can reload a couple of times and make sure that's okay.  In almost any instance, she won't have an issue, as long as she knows up front.

It does appear that she did the right thing by offering to make it up to you and yes, I would see her again if the chemistry is there.  Many escort/hobbyist relationships have gotten off to less than great starts, only to grow into something special.  It's your call.

Good post and good feedback.

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