Do you think it is cheating when you spend time with a provider? My SO was withholding sex for quite a while before I chose to indulge. I told her that if she wouldn't help me out in that way I would have to get it somewhere else. She didn't seem to have a problem with it but I didn't take the plunge for quite a while afterward. Finally I figured enough is enough, had a great time with some providers, and it definately made a difference in my perspective of women. When I was "frustrated" all I could think of was having sex with every woman I ran into, it really was getting in the way in every area of my life.
I sometimes think that playing in the hobby is disrespectful to my SO, on the other hand I feel so much better as the result.
What are your thoughts?

My wife can't have sex (Medical problems) and it's becoming a real problem for me, so I do what I have to do.  I'm capable of having sex two times a day and by not getting it at home I have no choise but to find it elsewhere.  I would love to fuck chicks that charge $300 and $400 girls but I save my lunch money and some mileage expenses so I can have some less expenseive pussy weekly.  
So, because of my problems at home what's a man to do?  It can't be called cheating do you think?
I would realy like to find a regular that would bang me weekly for a reduced rate.  Do you girls do things like that.      

I did the same thing with my last SO.  The relationship was very good except for the sex.  She was always tired and stressed from her work.  So I started to hobby.  It gave me another outlet.  Had I not hobbied I would have broken up with her much sooner.

NO its not cheating. Because you told her the truth and she agreed, then it totally not cheating. Its only cheating when the wife doesnt know.