Saw her ad for visiting Michigan and sent her complete ref form three times. No word back. Sent an email and got an automated response and reassured she'd be in touch in 24 hours. Nada. Did I miss the secret code?

I don't take no responses personally. Anyone coming to Detroit anymore I would think has a decent number of regulars. Maybe if you'll get a chance in the future.

just assume maybe she had other things going on in her life and could not reply. Or perhaps meant to reply but forgot. Personally I would not make it personal, I would understand things happen and who knows. I would definitely try again. Give the lady the benefit of the daunt. We are all human x

Often times gentleman neglect to read all the pertinent information on websites. Tobi has an age range of 25-60 so perhaps you fell outside her range? She's very thorough with screening so perhaps something you wrote rubbed her the wrong way. Who knows.

My guess is she was very popular here. I always try to make things extremely easy on the person to hopefully get ahead of those that don't.  

Guys,
I'm not losing sleep over it. I submitted the form exactly as she instructed and I fit all the parameters. It's no big deal, I was just surprised that she never bothered to respond considering how well thought of she is here. No harm, no foul.

I appreciate the data. That tells me that I may want to make sure I properly complete her contact form. Or spend my time and money on someone who hasn't received a complaint before she's even arrived I town! Since she hasn't responded, I'm inclined to believe the latter. "Data, data, data! I can't make bricks without clay!"

I've been extremely busy with school and have had some technological issues lately (my laptop was stolen so I'm having to condense everything business related to my iPhone...don't want to take my chances with the university library computers!), so needless to say I'm quite behind on emails and what not. I usually set aside an afternoon here and there to sit down and answer all emails/inquiries, but I simply haven't had a chance until now.  

Just a follow up. Tobi contacted me and explained what the issue was. She was extremely courteous and professional. Problem solved.

I also sent an email, mostly to see what area of town you would be visiting.  It would be nice to know this info before I send in all of my personal information... because there is no reason to do so if you will be in an area that I can't get to and back in 3-4 hours.

And I HATE trying to get to and from Novi after work...my loss.