Although I am a relative newbie (see post below), I have learned enough about the "Internet Senoritas" to know that Tania is the the equivalent of a "mammasan".  She will know if a lady is temporarily or "permanently" absent from the internet business.  (If you look regularly at the two TJ internet sites on which the ladies advertise, you will notice periodic changes ..... in particular one "withdrawl" in the past few days ..... a topic of much discussion on one of the free TJ interest sites.)
   You can try emailing Tania, but her life is quite busy and she is regularly in Mexico City, so it may take awhile for a response, or perhaps you may not get one at all.  If J Lo has simply left TJ for a brief trip home, you may receive a response from her sooner than you might from Tania.  
   Can you say, "She lives in a third-world country and is not tied to our first-world technology?"