TJ!

I go to TJ quite often and it is totally safe, especially if you deal with Hot TJ and CuminTJ.  Once you make an appointment, the girl will meet you at the border in her own car or will meet you at specified meeting place and then you take a taxi together to the very safe gated love motels, either La Masion or Premier.  These love motels are very inexpensive and are nicer than any of the moderately priced hotels in the US.  You can get  a regular room for $25 and a jacuzzi room for $60.  

The only tricky part is getting back to the US in a reasonable amount of time.  If you have a Sentri or global entry pass, you can get through the border in less than 5 minutes.  But if you have a regular passport, it may take as long as 3 hours to get across the border.   It is better to book a late day session during a weekday night and get to the border at 9 pm or later.  I have waited that long before I got my global entry pass.  It sucks especially if you don't have earplugs for your IPhone or  you need to piss from too much beer.    

I also stay at the Hotel Tiucan.  Just go across the border, get taxi, and they will take you there for $10.   Rooms are very nice but not as nice the love motels.  Girls will meet you at the hotel with no problems.  Remember to get to border early if you don't have a global entry pass.  If the girls are bust then you can go to the bars in red light district near by for some fun.  It is quite fun and girls are pretty hot.  You can bang them in the rooms at the clubs but don't expect GFE.     I have alot of fun just walking on the main drag near Hotel Ticuan where the locals party.  There is cheap beer and cheap street food.  It's a blast.  

I totally recommend going to TJ.  I have lots of fun there and I feel safe.  Just remember it's a third world county.  Girls are cheap and they can be super hot and provide amazing mind blowing sex.   I make the 2.5 to 3.0 hour drive from Los Angels every couple of weeks.  PM me if you want  more info.