Neub...

What I NSH suggest is you make an appointment with one or more ladies in your area who do not require references, and session with them first.  Personally I'd be upfront and ask her if she provided references for any previous clients, but then I'm not shy, but if you don't fancy that, then ask her after your session *while* you're handing her the reasonable tip you are graciously leaving.  Chances are if you've been a gentleman, don't look diseased, haven't been a cheapskate, and are breathing, she'll be happy to.

I am a bit curious though....
if you are a current hobbiest, why don't you have any ladies who will be a reference for you?

AND if you aren't a current hobby participant, why would you want to be the only Hobby Virgin at a meet and greet?

Wait a minute.... what self respecting provider wouldn't give you the performance of her life if she knew you were a Hobby Rookie?  You sly dog you....

and even if that's not your plan, it'll be mine for the next local gathering!

later,

Pheque Ewe
"because sheep won't cook"

Go to the Newbie board (2nd in list on the left) and read a few pages.  Also, see the Newbie Manual on the top of the Newbie Board.