I hate to ask such a stupid newbie question, but I just got invited to the D.C. M&G and I wanted to get some feedback beyond what was in the invite.
I'm new to this hobby, and I've learned a lot by reading through this site, and others, and especially the discussion boards, but there are still many questions I have. And for me it's sometimes easier in a conversation environment, as opposed to asking questions on the boards. (After searching for the information first, of course.)
I've asked the few providers that I've seen, but I'd like to get some information from other hobbyists and the M&G seems like a perfect opportunity.
For instance, I have a transportation problem and would like to ask information about incall locations ahead of time when I see a provider that I might like to visit, but I'm unsure how to ask someone new a question like that in the proper manner. Anyway, I'm hoping these are things I can ask at the M&G, but wanted to check first.
BTW, I did a quick search through the boards and couldn't find anything about etiquette on M&G's.
Not really sure what your questions is. Is it asking hobbyist for specific incall locations, or being able to ask question at the MnG.
If you ask a Hobbyist where an incall location is such as an agencies address for their incall or an indy's incall address - you should not be be given this information, so don't ask it.
Of course you might find a few less scrupulous or naive hobbyist who don't see anything wrong with giving out details to a total stranger, someone who has not been screened by the provider or agency. But you surely wouldn't get that information from me.
If it was not the specific address, and only the regional information, you can ask that. You can ask if there is a metro bus or train located close. You can also ask if there is a parking arrangements local. No harm in asking those.
The MnG's are a place to mingle with those in the community that have similar interest, so questions are allowed, but within reason.
Feel free to PM any of those from the DC area with more question if like.
What I was thinking with my example was asking someone if it was appropriate to ask a provider general regional information, such as; is the incall location within walking distance of a metro stop, or something like that. Nothing specific at all, but general hobby type questions.
To be honest, I wasn't sure if it was appropriate to talk about the hobby much at all at the meet & greet.
Other thoughts might be asking about general behavior, such as a provider said such and such to me, is that typical. I can't think of an example, but just general information that someone that's been doing this longer then a couple of months would take for granted, but might not be too obvious to a newbie.
And yes it's ok to talk shop - LOL. You will quickly get a feel for things (not literally) at the MnG. It's the place to get to know your peers in the community and for them to get to know you. This is good for both the hobbyist and providers. But above all things, please relax and have a good time.
You might not be that bad, but I certainly am. Just ask everyone, they know. So, if you see me next to the bar, ask me what the hell am I doing ok. Might need a wake up call. LOL
A gentleman interested in meeting me would be sure to take my card, visit my website and ask me any questions later via e-mail.
But that is me. I am very tight with any details until someone has completed my screening. And FYI guys, just because the M&G coordinator approves you does not mean a lady will automatically choose you to be one of her friends.
Talking any kind of shop in general is a no-no. Plus, I know better. A girl such as myself attracts suitors on my feet, not with promises of what I am like on my back.
Yet, as I said before I am different. Conversation topics and behavior that I would disdain might not bother another lady.
I tend to stay away from disdainful topics when talking to any lady, even those that might not be bothered by it. Just has to do with my upbringing.
That's one of the reasons I was asking the question, in a way. I would appreciate the feedback from someone who has been in this hobby longer than I and what may, or may not, be appropriate to ask a lady, such as you, when sending an e-mail.
And I wasn't thinking of questions such as what you, or anyone, might be like on your back. But more technical questions.
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