Guys have you ever not seen a lady for fear of becoming emoitionally attached. Eaither by reading her website or reviews or just because she is the perfect women based on her pictures or beacause of all the above???

In my case, the answer is no. However, 3-4 times I have found myself seeing someone as much for her personality as for the sex. These were gals that I really really liked. I think I've avoided dipping my feet into the emotionally attached realm.

I had a UTR friend that I started seeing on a regular basis. Gave up hobbling with other chicks as I would rather have time with her.  I feel it was mutual as she would often see me for No Fee or give me a call and meet for drinks.  Emotional connection made it fun, it was more of a friend with benefits, no jealousy and she would even bring a friend for a threesome from time to time.  She is out of the business now, do I think about her? Yes. Would I see her again? In a second. So yeah there were feelings but it made it more attractive.

I think many of us fantasize that the connection with some of our ladies is more than just $$$. I know several of my repeats seem genuinely happy when I contact them and especially when we see each other. For a few, there is good feeling that it is a little more than just a customer relationship, a true connection and friendship, especially when we establish commonality outside the hobby. Those are the ones I tend to go back and see over and over, where the chemistry seems right.