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Thoughts on video?
MDTerp05 2138 reads
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Saw a provider for 1st time and after got started asked if she would be okay with video/photos if I extra compensated.  Not a big deal at all if not but she seemed upset I even asked period and somewhat made the visit very business like and killed the mood.

Certainly understand need for privacy and not a deal breaker by anymeans.  Wondering is it offensive to even ask though?  Is this something some girls are cool with or is it a cardinal rule I broke by asking like an idiot.

She doesn’t show her face in her ads I wouldn’t recommend to ask for this.  

Eden

MDTerp05426 reads

Good point.  This specific provider does and has an active Twitter account she's posted pics on before.  Maybe it was my timing of the question too.

 
Def. Understand need for discretion and wouldn't want anything like that of myself either getting out just figured others have to ask often about it too.

As soon as she had to tell you “No”, in session, she might have immediately started stressing about the bad review you might give her.  It might have come across as a “gotcha”, and probably threw her off her game.

MDTerp05407 reads

Thought I was pretty casual about it like. It a big deal either way, but guess that doesn't mean it's necessarily how it came across so good point.

 
Guess best to mention it upfront before meet to not have to discuss it either way late.  Not sure if any providers do allow it generally don't want to be scaring them away either on initial request lol

Even though it's something I'm ok with; I do like to know beforehand.

I've asked multiple girls and I'm lucky most are open minded and agreed. They would ask for a little fee and we're cool. I had met one girl who didn't charge me at all last year, only to find out she retired after 2 weeks. I considered it a Dasvidanya video.

J2526427 reads

I know one provider who specifically advertises she allows it, but the $500 bump was enough I didn't pursue it.

It's ironic that if you pay someone to have sex while they're being filmed (i.e., pornography), it's protected artistic expression, but if you pay them for sex and remove the film from the equation, it's illegal.

Seems like some of the porn actresses don't get paid much more than high end escorts. I wonder if that's part of the escort market out in CA?

It also might be a work-around to this whole SESTA/FOSTA mess. They're not advertising for sex, they're advertising to express themselves artistically on film ;)

BTW, a quick google for adult performer directories located the linked website.

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