Here is a question from somewhat of a Newbie, I'm posting this here because i'm looking for an experienced answer.  How much screening would be necessary for a lunch/dinner only date, and would this be an acceptable way to meet.  Ladies please chime in with your opinions..  Thanks

...begin with an introduction over lunch, or a cocktail, but my screening process remains the same.  I still must know whom I am visiting with/meeting.

Thanks Cayden  

Thanks Kelly ..

So would this be an appropriate way to meet at first, for a possible second meeting, if someone lacked personal references?  Secondly would you be OK with this approach, with employment verification?  Thanks

Good info Cayden. I actually did not think I should screen the gent if we were just going to have dinner. Thanks for giving me something to consider.

Thanks  

I wouldn't even go on a "civvie" or "IRL" date without screening lol. I would screen in or out of the hobby, even just for drinks.

and wear a flannel shirt..  then you are okay and I will....SWOOOON!

As a matter of fact I do own a few flannel shirts..  I do also like a woman in flannel and nothing else!!