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Re: While I find the "no black men" ads offensive, my reason for not entertaining.....
luv.lee8t6 See my TER Reviews 1039 reads
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Thanks Kelly!! I appreciate your response.
And your reasons are your reasons so I won't/shouldn't  judge that.
My reason for not having a problem with seeing black men is because my dad...brother....nephew...friends are black men.  
All good men.
There is good and bad in EVERYBODY.
That's all I'm trying to say.

But I'm still confused to how you don't entertain black men because like u said "goes back to my childhood, when races simply did not mingle together that often".
Yet u have black friends.  
Are those just female black friends?
Do u not entertain them?
Or do just not entertain black men?
Did the not mingling of races during your childhood just have an effect on one gender?
Posted By: BeautywithBrains
.....  African American gentleman goes back to my childhood, when races simply did not mingle together that often.    
   
       I have many African American friends,  and many interracial couples as friends.  Given the fact that I live downtown DC, many of the people in my day to day life, and many those I pass on the street late at night are African American, I can honestly tell you, I have never felt threatened.    
   
 Hugs and Kisses,  
 Kelly  
   
   
   
   
   
       

sqitdown2937 reads

Is there not a market for blk guys? I'm confused

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lumbermanxxx832 reads

that your confused.  With the number of reviews your have I'm sure you have read postings that say why.  From what I have read (and please correct me if I'm wrong) I think its more of a personal preference.  It also applies a lot of time to younger AA men(under 30) as it is posted many times. I think it has littler to do with the "market". Just my two Lincoln's..

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Is there not a market for blk guys? I'm confused

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sqitdown870 reads

I thought the personal preference was green backs?!? I understand  bo body wants trouble.. That's why you say upscale gentlemen over 30 that's cool but come on no AA cause of what you think you saw on TV

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joelrick939 reads

I have read in some posts on this matter by escorts say that they are concerned about robbery or violence. Then there are concerns about how thuggish younger black guys are. In post date conversations I have had with one about some of the conduct of younger black guys, which generally reflects the pimp-'ho' culture. It's a sad state of affairs when young black guys' behavior is so ducked up that they find themselves unwelcome at strip clubs and escorts.

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ZODIAC301801 reads

Girls are suspicious of young black men because in their culture it's easy for them to find free and easy sex,with "hood rats" or with fat white girls or even cute white girls who have fetish for black cock.I don't know any black guy under 40,regardless of looks or income who can't get laid for free.The bottom line is they don't NEED to frequent providers anyway.I doubt many 25 yr old black guys are going without pussy due to this and most providers have black boyfriends/handlers anyway.

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HidingBehindMyAlias656 reads

Good point.  In Baltimore and surrounding areas, there is a large number of white chicks banging black dudes.  For FREE!  Seems being a black guy is in vogue now with the white civie women.  

Were I the OP, I would be rejoicing during this time of free white girl love for the dark skinned brothers.  :-

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Posted By: ZODIAC301
Girls are suspicious of young black men because in their culture it's easy for them to find free and easy sex,with "hood rats" or with fat white girls or even cute white girls who have fetish for black cock.I don't know any black guy under 40,regardless of looks or income who can't get laid for free.The bottom line is they don't NEED to frequent providers anyway.I doubt many 25 yr old black guys are going without pussy due to this and most providers have black boyfriends/handlers anyway.
 
This is. Erg untrue.... In my experience being a successful, acttractive black guy over 40 but don't look it.
I have a very hard time with dating outside of my race. This is the reason I hobby. Idk maybe it's me but I never
Get the nod or look for that sign that it is cool to approach. Lol I sorround my self with  "white women" and nope
No haps.  

Enlighten me on how we are the in thing now ? Cause I missed the memo.  
Lol I was in a bar in bmore with some friends and this
White chick from pa visiting asked me if I was  stinger bell.
I just shook my head.  
Psssh no offence but it would be nice to try a  "becky" in civvy
Life just to see how it would be.

Side note....  No to get on my soap box but "American crime"
Has me a little upset that the black guy dating the white chick is a meth/crack head.
Add more to our pimp/hustler..... Gonna beat and rape you stereotype.  
Sad. Cause this is me on most days:

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luv.lee8t6894 reads

The reason is pretty clear......to me anyway.
Being a black man I'm sure you are well aware of how we (as people of color)are portrayed in society 50 years ago and still today.
Especially black MEN!
I don't think it's personal preference it's societies preference .
That's like me saying I'm not seeing white MEN.... because according to society and studies 70% of sexual offenders are WHITE. Why would I see you if you might rape me....stalk me...fuck my dog or ask me where the nearest elementary school is at.
95% of my clientele are black men and I've had zero problems.  
To each their own I guess!!!

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BeautywithBrains982 reads

.....  African American gentleman goes back to my childhood, when races simply did not mingle together that often.  

      I have many African American friends,  and many interracial couples as friends.  Given the fact that I live downtown DC, many of the people in my day to day life, and many those I pass on the street late at night are African American, I can honestly tell you, I have never felt threatened.  

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

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luv.lee8t61040 reads

Thanks Kelly!! I appreciate your response.
And your reasons are your reasons so I won't/shouldn't  judge that.
My reason for not having a problem with seeing black men is because my dad...brother....nephew...friends are black men.  
All good men.
There is good and bad in EVERYBODY.
That's all I'm trying to say.

But I'm still confused to how you don't entertain black men because like u said "goes back to my childhood, when races simply did not mingle together that often".
Yet u have black friends.  
Are those just female black friends?
Do u not entertain them?
Or do just not entertain black men?
Did the not mingling of races during your childhood just have an effect on one gender?

Posted By: BeautywithBrains
.....  African American gentleman goes back to my childhood, when races simply did not mingle together that often.    
   
       I have many African American friends,  and many interracial couples as friends.  Given the fact that I live downtown DC, many of the people in my day to day life, and many those I pass on the street late at night are African American, I can honestly tell you, I have never felt threatened.    
   
 Hugs and Kisses,  
 Kelly  
   
   
   
   
   
       

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toomuchdrama907 reads

I am surprised at your posting this.  Your answer about races not mixing is more racist then anything I have read so far.  You are usually politically correct, you dropped the ball on this tho, IMHO.

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wrps07853 reads

She gets some kudos for being honest. As they at least we know the rest of the story.

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MAK-901536 reads

To the OP, get on P411, Date Check, etc and get a TER whitelist from reputable providers then most reputable ladies will most likely see you no matter what ethnic background you are.  You're probably referring to BP ladies ad's so my advice would be to stay off of BP.

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sqitdown782 reads

Thanks Ill try this

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kwikhit877 reads

Just face it man, we are all never just one. Lol who cares though.
I bet for that one girl that has no black men, there are just as many
Women even better looking waiting to take your money and have lots of fun.
Get on p411 and scan the ad board.  You will always find someone
That hits all your buttons.

Just don't show up looking like:
Lol

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charmain123746 reads

I cant say what any other girls think but I see black guys as long as screening is done....and I screen with any guys no matter their skin color.....

 
Warmly Charmaine xoxoxo

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Portia Eden688 reads

I adore all men.   (And most women..... LoL......)

It's whats " inside" of any person that matters me.    

And whether or not they're a good kisser.  

:).

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Slow657 reads

where does one cross the line? Where does that leave mixed races, Hispanics, and many other races? Or should it be taken verbatim?

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TrulyMsMocha1135 reads

...I would think that'd include the black ones too.  
For example while he may have lightened the hell out of his skin, relaxed his hair and wears creepy light contact lenses Sammy Sosa while Hispanic/Latino (Dominican) is still a black man.  And unless that mixed race person could easily "pass" for anything but black I would get they'd be shunned to unfortunately.

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HidingBehindMyAlias720 reads

I'm sure it stings to be shunned by a certain percentage of providers for being AA.  At least you know some of the ones to avoid ahead of time.  

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weipeikei692 reads

But the stereotype has always been true in my experience and I would jump at the chance again.. and pick up some Trojan XXL's. ;]

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ishitunot999 reads

LEAVE THEM ALONE AND MOVE ON!!! Has this country gone totally mad to the point that if your not white you think you are entitled to anything you want just because you're not white??? Doors close in everyone's faces. Try thinking like your not a victim!

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HidingBehindMyAlias775 reads

That was awesome post.

I count 5 Caucasian providers just on this small thread that say they love them some black dick, and only one that said she does not entertain AA men.

Like I said, I do sympathize with anyone who gets shunned for something that they are born with.  In the case of this thread, it would be shunned for being black.  

I am not black, so I do not claim to know what it is to be an African American, but I do know what it is to be shunned for something I have been born with and is out of my control as a human being

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sqitdown749 reads

When I see "no AA and no thugs" that's pisses me off. I'm blk n not a thug. that message seems like a streotpye not preference the real preference is the green. That's all I'm saying

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HidingBehindMyAlias979 reads

See this is interesting.  From your point of view you are reading "no AA and no thugs" as though it says "no AA thugs".  And that could be exactly what a provider who used that statement meant.

Coming from my point of view it reads "no AA men and no thug types" as two separate issues.  I believe thugs come in all variety of races or ethnic groups and definitely including Caucasian types.  

It certainly would be more tactful to say it in two separate sentences, but it hardly takes the sting out of being excluded.  

I know it doesn't make you feel better when I say this, but the vast majority of African American women don't give me the time of day, if they aren't straight up snickering right in my face when they see me.  We all gotta deal with racism on some level.  Sad state of human affairs.

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BigJo503 reads

Yeah, I saw this too as it looks to be becoming more and more prevalent or maybe I'm just noticing it more now. One of the things that makes it worse, IMO, is that I've seen this from quite a few Afro-Latinas. I'm thinking, "Damn, you're black too!" Nothing you can do about it but keep it moving. It's just really disturbing to see. Ladies are entitled to reject anyone they wish, but seems as though we're the only demographic that gets rejected with "no black men" in all caps.

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