The audacity some ppl have to actually try to hurt others businesses because they decided to cancel last minute and see a different provider then post negatively about the provider on private boards because I told the guy I had to report the incident. Unbelievable! It’s clearly printed on my website I have 0 tolerance for ppl who cancel last minute. Anybody else have this problem with guys in the area? I think it’s crazy that people get so caught up in this to where they would choose to try to hurt others merely to satisfy some weird urge for vengeance.

I guess I don’t get any points for forewarning him what actions I take for matters such as these. 1.5 hrs before is a s***y move. I’m sorry. I had another client he would have loved that time slot that I ended up missing out on completely because he left town this morning.

A well reviewed elite independent cacelled on me 15 before the appointment after CONFIRMING an hour earlier. She said she just changed her mind! What a CUNT!!

Interesting how this provider has the audacity to complain about this.

Correct, Anya didn't cancel on YOU.

I didn't think that we were allowed to use the C word.  Maybe it is only prohibited in reviews.lol

It happens on both ends no matter how much you plan or state your policy. When it comes to newbies or someone  you have not meet before try asking for a paypal deposit etc. to cover costs  if they cancel before you set the date.... I do or I pass.

At the end of the day it's busness , it happens , it will happen again , at least they call vs no show,  I'm in a business where it also happens , because I serve the public , I accept , I thank them for thinking of me and hope to take their money another day and move on !

He wasn’t a newbie. He literally canceled to see another provider. Anytime I’ve ever canceled last minute I had a good excuse.

He didn’t call I actually had to contact him for the cancelation. Crazy... anytime I’ve done this was because I was sick or lacked sleep... something along these lines.

I didn't cancel on Anya, either. In fact, I've never booked an appointment with her.

This topic is all over the General Board, with all the reasons to NEVER leave a deposit (money that is)

Please speak for yourself.  

Guys get ripped off all the time paying deposits to "business people" of any type, being robbed by providers is well documented on these very boards.

Again, YOU speak for YOURSELF

This is a discussion board, we ALL speak for ourselves! LOL

Confidence has nothing to do with it imo.....to each his/her own.

and sure it does!

Anya, you’ve always been considerate of my schedule requests and honest about when you could or could not meet with me. Yes, this happens but if he cancelled last minute in order to see someone else-shame on him. For the record HE MISSED OUT!

As I have said the only time I cancel last minute is due to illness usually. Those who know me know I have GI problems that cause an enormous amount of pain. I don’t cancel on clients to see other clients.

Yes he was a newbie with one provider reference and only 21 yo and he did schedule an 8pm appt. I had to contact him to get his cancelation.

Nope but once again I do cancel minute occasionally but I’m usually sick when I do.

I know you mr gun patrol... and I love u!!! Lol  

Thank you sweetie. I do try very hard not to cancel and to be clear and concise when communicating and scheduling with clients so there is not any confusion. I admit that my life is super busy (hence I only jump on ter once or twice a week), I have a career, friends, family and I travel a lot!, but I try to be sure to look at my emails every few hours and get back to people with clear plans about my schedule. I am not the provider to engage in friendly banter very often at all and I am also not an excessive emailer. I email when I have time to and that is that.

We can all agree that getting cancelled on sucks. In this case, it is obvious that it was done with no regard to courtesy. There are lots of good reasons that people cancel on both sides of the fence. It does not hurt any less, from a monetary or a feelings side.  

I was just cancelled on after I confirmed 1hr before. Shit happens and I've learned over the years not to get pissed. I've cancelled at the last minute a few times, mainly if I see unmarked cop cars in the parking lot and my spidey sense says not today.  I've cancelled when I've seen people who know me.

It is different when you are informed that the cancellation was due to another provider.

You’re not catching on dude, sounds like Slabo issaying she cancelled on him