Had the strangest dream. I had a shy, virgin, 21-yr-old son. Decided to let him in the world of SWers and give him some advice but I didn't know who to recommend.  Tried to come up w/ someone patient that would also boost his confidence. Thought about my favorites but thought most wouldn't work for him -- too cold, too submissive, too aggressive, etc. Settled on Jordan Lakehurst from Jen's, but changed my mind, thinking she'd ruin his future expectations.