I'm curious as to why a Provider would prefer or state that services will not be provided to Black men. Is it truly a preference, where I find that's difficult to believe in this line of work where the client's appearance is unknown until the time of the appointment? Also taking into account that some Providers don't even post their actual real photos but can choose to not offer services based off of race. Can someone client or provider enlighten me on this please?

She does not have to see anyone . As long as you know upfront so what. It is not like their is  only one lady  available for guys of any race. You confuse appearance with personal choice-whether you agree with it or not.

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But thug/criminal behavior aint limited to the hood though, lol. See meth labs and moonshiners in the neighboring state of west virgina. Brothas aint even really mixed up in that, lol.  

We all have personal preferences for some reason or another.

...and this pretty much confirms my assumption.

Hi

Hi, what do you mean by aggressive ?
 

so all black men are the same based on the perhaps negative actions of a few, sista? Thats okay in your book? Brothas is responsible for and must pay for the actions of another brotha...but the actions of a White man are independent of race?  

.... the very few bad experiences I've had (haggling, rough, rude etc) were mostly with white clients (not black or other races/ethnicities) but it'd be pretty well stupid for lack of better words to cut out all white clients because then about 70% of my business would be toast.  
So....most black clientele I do see (black men make up about 15%-20% at best of who I see) or get contacted by aren't in the least bit aggressive, cheap, rarely mention discounts (that I offer to members etc) and don't negotiate, have NOT tried to rob me or have poor attitudes.  

Thanks MsMocha.  
I didn't know we could haggle or ask for discounts. Hate to say it but IMO that  
Is "white man privilege"  thing. Lol I'm so  happy to get the chance to bang out (to aggressive 😜)
Make sweet tender love while reciting sonnets about her Beauty.

.... what I did understand "I didn't know we could haggle or ask for discounts."
I didn't say you could do either (or should anyways)  .... why technically you could it's probably a good idea to do either ESPECIALLY if she doesn't offer any discounts and/or you're a new/first-time client.  Don't recommend trying to haggle either (no bueno) .... pisses most providers off lol. As a consumer of a different kind I don't approach something I want to buy (in this business you'd be renting actually lol) until I can afford the asking price or I wait for a sale/special.

.... count on my 2 hands. But out of those few experiences more were white than men of color.  
I don't think being abusive is a white privilege but very few of us have and will ever see 'no white men' or 'black men only' ads because most hobbyists are white. I like to think I screen pretty well so I get almost no problems out of anyone white or black or asian etc. If you're in this to make as much as possible as a paid companion you will not cut out those who are spending most of the money.  You shouldn't treat a majority a group a certain way (negatively) on the actions of a few which is why I said though there are many reasons why some will say NBA but if one of those reasons is just because you've have a few bad experiences well who hasn't. Most won't create a NWA policy because most of their business would be gone and they know it. I'll stay equal opportunity because I like MEN of any race/ethnicity/mix and enjoy seeing different types of people.

I know providers who will not see men of certain ages, race, and of a certain weight! We are human and have preferences. If a provider is truly enjoying what she dies it makes sense she might say no to a certain type of man. It happens in civvie life and no one should take it personally.  

I just refuse to believe anyone non black is more attractive than a good looking black guy. Duck Dynasty guys over Denzel Washington or Will Smith(no homo), lol? Really?!?!  

No she equated being desperate with seeing a guy a provider wasn't comfortable with due to a particular characteristic of said guy that might be his age, weight and/or race. I actually had a provider refuse to see me because one of my provider references was black (I am white). Just shrugged my shoulders and moved on - it's her loss.

....i've seen it in a handful of provider profiles (including on P411) where a lady stated she wouldn't see black men or any client of any race if any of their references (or anyone they'd reviewed) were black. OUCH! lol

or any where. They can see or not see anyone they wish, but if they actually don't want to be exposed to clients who see non-white providers. They are in the wrong business.

its always dissapointing when i see that on ads, because i fit alot of stereotypes about young, black men...but im a nice guy lol but when i see it, i just move on...i was temped to email a girl, just to ask why one time, but i decided against it...i realized that i didnt really want to know the answer