I had seen ads on P411 for a provider and she generally met my criteria.  Did some research and she seemed to check out but I couldn't find any reviews on TER but there were positive on other sites.  I decided to go ahead and schedule an appointment.  I got there walked in and turned around and walked out.  Definitely not what I expected.  My bad.  From now on I'm only seeing providers with reviews on TER.

What exactly made you walk away?

I really don't want to get into the details as it would be unfair to the lady in question.  Suffice it to say that I had expected one thing and saw another.  As I said in my original post it was my mistake for making an appointment with a provider w/o TER reviews.

I frequent Date-check and P411 for talent. Yes if there are reviews all the better but I haven't been burned by trying someone without reviews.   Sorry for your bad experience but the new talent needs someone to write a review for them too.

You might want to post on RO board.

This was not a new provider.  She advertises on P411 and has been around for a long time.  That is why I initially hesitated to make the appointment when I couldn't find anything on TER.  I thought to myself how can she be aan established provider w/o any TER reviews?  I set that concern aside and went anyway.  Never again.

Aside from people feeling bad for you, what was gained by this post?  I don't think anyone learned anything as you didn't share any information other than you got burned.  While we sympathisize, I believe the spirit of this board is to foster a community approach that would allow others to benefit from your experience.  Just like we all benefit from hearing positive input, in this case, the negative experience would help others avoid repeating your experience.

Sorry for being kinda new to this hobby. Why would someone go through the process of setting up a date, get verified by providing personal information, get cash money from a bank, drive over to the ladies Incall location, walk in her door and turn around and leave? Was it a guy instead of girl? I would imagine that they lady in question got mad.  I read another lady said she got cancelled by phone 10 mins prior to the appt and wanted to give that guy a bad rep.  Why would you waste a ladies time like this? Is this something that happens on a regular basis or even tolerated in the hobby?

Sorry I am late to this posting, but saw that you didn't receive any replies to your question...  There have been a few very rare occasions when I have gone through the process as you have described, and then walked out after arrival. Unfortunately, I have lost some funds doing so, but was unable to proceed with the date for various reasons, typically extreme misrepresentation on the part of the provider. Most typically, it is when the providers posted pictures are far from matching reality, either due to the pics being many years old or perhaps photo-shopped prior to posting. But on other occasions it is purely a mismatch in personality or approach. I seek out GFE providers and when the provider is 100% business (e.g. put the money here, take off your clothes, here are my rules: no kissing, no tongue, don't touch me without asking first, etc.). I thoroughly check out provider reviews in order to find those that fit my style and desires, and if it is quickly determined that their information was totally misleading, I won't go through with a bad session just because I had spent time and effort setting it all up.