You have no reviews, no references, no posting history/credibility on the boards. You have stated that you are reluctant to go through screening.
You may find someone to respond to your ISO, but I honestly hope not. It is not safe for you, or for the gal.
I suggest you go to the Newbie board and read back a few pages. You are not the first Newbie to join TER, and all the advice you need to establish yourself in the hobby is discussed in the Newbie board threads. Then, read the self-help center (all of it).
After you have established yourself with a few reviews, references, a board presence, etc... you will know how to arrange a date in an appropriate manner with our wonderful providers.
I'm not hating on you here, and I'm not calling you out as the po-po; but you are young and inexperienced and you need to follow the advice of those who are experienced and go about things in certain ways that are time-honored, tested and safe for everyone involved.
Please do yourself (and the rest of us) a favor and go to the Newbie board to do some homework and learn how this world works.