I contacted a well know high end (expensive) provider by TER pm.  The next day she sent me a PM stating she had contacted some of the ladies on my white list.  They had spoken highly of me and that she would love to see me.  I responded back that lets communicate by text and we had a number of flirtatious texts back and forth.  A time was set at her incall in Marina Del Rey and the last text which was three hours before the meeting time asked me what I wanted her to wear and what I would like to drink.  I texted back "surprise me" and just water.  I also asked her for the address of the incall and where I should park.  No response.  One hour before meeting time I texted her asking for the address.  Still no response.  24 hours later still havent heard from her although I contacted her by email, TER PM, text and phone.  I told her I was worried and asked if she was ok.  Do you think she just at the last moment decided to flake on me without notifying me or perhaps something happened to her.

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First, I hope she is OK. 
Retrospectively you can scan her reviews.  Flakes generally demonstrate certain characteristics:
They are chronically late, they frequently postpone meetings (false starts) they sometimes are drunk, or under the influence (look for the 7 score, in a sea of 9's and 10's).  
There are some truly professional ladies in this business (Carla, Emi, Shelby, Cameron.....to name a few) but it always amazes me that a woman who flakes 10 percent of the time, can be listed in the top 40 of L.A.   Can you imagine a surgeon who misses 10 percent of his scheduled surgeries, or a trial attorney who is absent in court?
But look at it this way:  You have an extra dime, in your pocket...  Have fun with it!  
Cheers!

Just move on tp the net girl!

Bahahaha I completely fit the profile of a flake. I never used to think I was one until today!! Good to know!

I believe this happens more often than what Hobbyists are willing to admit.  The Provider gets a better offer or already has 2 of us on the wait list, whichever offers more gets the date.  As I have been told many times, this is a business.  Definitely not good customer service, but it's not going to change.  Move on.

Maybe I am gullible but I believe her.  She said she would make it up to me so I rescheduled.  Lets see what happens next.  And I was just getting used to the extra cash in my pocket.

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She probably blew you off (take your pick of reasons, but a true proffessional should at least have the courtosy to cancel and not leave you hanging).

You probably live in town and so what do you have to loose by trying her again.

I got blown off on a scheduled date where I flew in to see the girl.  It wasnt a total disaster since I had a 2nd girl on the docket for later.

I did get a cancellation notice, but only after my plane had touched down, and by then I couldnt get anyone else I was interested in, and didnt like the other options... So I saved some money on that trip.

If this girl blows you off again, definately time to move on.... Possibly warn the other bros about it.

Otherwise no one will know this high end provider might waste their time.

A one time flake, doesnt need to be outed.  Things happen, but two times is a pattern.

Thx for taking the time to post about your experience.