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BigPeterJohnson1517 reads

this has never happened to me, and i just can't believe people would do this.

but on another regional board a provider said she has heard that other providers get angry at their clients for using them as references to see her, because they didn't want their client to see someone else.

maybe i've been lucky, but all my lady friends are hapoy to give me glowing reviews.  probably be ause they know how to make me keep coming back lol.

has anyone experienced this kind of small mindedness?

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Silkstalkings378 reads

can't stand the ladies who will only give you a reference only if you rate them a 10-10 for review.

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BigPeterJohnson197 reads

eofm

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ElspethSin365 reads

Especially if we had a quick and not so amazing date. I will give my honest opinion when being a reference even if it is not nice. I realize that not everyone has chemistry and this could have just been a fluke. If I have seen a client more than once I have no problem giving a great review because I know their behaviors.

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BigPeterJohnson321 reads

i always ask a lady if i can use her as a reference before i do.

sorry if i didn't make that clear.  come to think of it, it didn't even enter my mind that some guy might do that without asking first.

i'm such a mangina!  which is modern speak for gentleman!  lol!

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OingeBoinge243 reads

On P411 a lady can contact any of your okays she wants to.  I have had a couple of particularly careful ladies actually do that even though I already had the okay and have lots of okays.  Even when I told her which ones of the okays know me best, she would still check with some others.  

I don't mind them doing that, but obviously I can't check with them first.  But I guess since she gave the okay in the first place, she was essentially saying it was alright for her to be contacted.....kind of.

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GingerGunnar286 reads

they are called "hooker wives" lol..

That being said, I just removed a client I'd whitelisted because in the last 48 hrs he is clearly shopping and I keep getting contacted by people asking me if he is safe.  Im ready to say, no, he's diseased and ripped me off but he put a gun to my head so I whitelisted him..

Happy the gent is having fun but when I start to feel like a guys booker or pimp it's a little much, since I only have so much time myself to dedicate to this pleasure of ours.  (read- no I'm not a booker, agency, or pimp.  I'm an independent)

Asking first is always a nice touch, and for the record I love to be helpful, but maybe it's the same for the guys here after writing a review, do you have gents then blowing up your inbox asking if she's safe and legit after you've given her a positive review?

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OingeBoinge298 reads

providers that get a little possessive of their clients.  So those types of providers I could see acting that way.  I have not come across this personally though or if I did I was not made aware of it.  Perhaps we have not seen it because we have good taste in our initial selections.  

Acting that would be one way to turn me off on seeing a provider more.  It's not exactly like we're the only guy they are seeing.  Though I do see ElspethSin's point if it was a very short meeting and she hardly knows the guy.

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coeur-de-lion431 reads

the girls get very possessive, but the bookers want you to see as many of their girls as possible.  Consequently, if you had to depend on the girl, herself, for the reference, it would never happen.  If you have done substantial business with a particular booker, they will usually be good about giving you a reference, because even though you want to see another booker's girl, they know you will still be back with them.  However, if you have only booked a few times, they may blow off the request, thinking the little bit of business you are giving them is now going to be diluted even more.

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Guo15339 reads

have their their own board?  
I'm just expressing puzzlement, not criticism. Perhaps some guys can enlighten us on their passion to proselytize. Like that K-fan who out of the blue declared, "we're back!" :)



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coeur-de-lion379 reads

of the LA market that is Kgirl is much larger monetarily than the percentage that is indies. 2) Many LA hobbyists see both indies and Kgirls, so its relevant to the local scene.  3) The Kgirl board is national and there are things about the Kgirl scene that is unique to the LA market.  Does that satisfy your puzzlement enough not to hide behind an alias next time?  If you have sex with women providers, you should know this already.  

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BigPeterJohnson247 reads

eom

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tankbinding282 reads

but it was probably my fault for getting too deep :/

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super_awesome_alias_x100216 reads

Some providers I have seen explicitly said they would provide a reference any time.  If anyone else got angry with me, I never heard about it and it hasn't affected me.

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YairMarx233 reads

Well no shit, with all the 10's you give out what the the fuck would you expect...they won't complain.

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BigPeterJohnson228 reads

thus the secret of my success

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lewingard207 reads

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