Have you ever helped a provider financially over and above the usual financial arrangement. IE, No SB's, tips, etc. Just a lady who was in trouble financially and needed money. No names please. As for myself, I did it once. Not a lot of money to be sure, but I did do it because she had kids. What say you?
Two or three times, and once, several thousand dollars to someone on the verge of a nervous breakdown. Or suicidal.
I don't know if the latter paid off in my favor. I know she's quit, sober and properly taking care of her children. Maybe she met someone. But I trust her life is better. However, I sure as hell miss the sex. Some of the best ever. And she might well have been the most beautiful provider I've met, as well.
have done that a couple times .. was never more than $500 .. in one case it was for hotel room for her and kids for a week while waiting for her subsidized apartment. another again just a couple hundred .. but generally turn down 99% of those requests. unless i get "something" in return ahead of time.
I had seen her for awhile so I trusted her. One day she asked for 600 to help her out of a jam, no worries had the money in her account within minutes. After that, never heard from her till about a couple of years later. I didn't bring it up, I never saw her again and just washed it away. So now it's a rule I have...do not send money...I guess I'm jaded.
I don't think u are jaded. I am the same way. I don't think I would ever do what I did again. What I gave was a small amount ($200) I think. But, i had met her kids so it was hard for me to turn her down. She actually moved back to where she was from a short time later. I know several ladies who have saved their money and have done very well. I also know of ladies that spent every cent they made. Its unfortunate. But quite frankly, u could say that about a lot dudes have invested well and some have spent every cent they made.
if they offer a service and they need money. Why not offer that service as you pay for it and everybody is happy. Nobody is asking for free money, nobody is expecting to lose that money or whatever.
Yes everybody knows I'm dumb and slow. So can somebody help me here.
to loan her $3000 for first and last month's rent on a trick pad. I gave it to her and she worked off the debt.
A while later, she asked to borrow $900 to buy Xmas presents for her child. She had paid off her previous debt so I gave her an even $1000. I kept seeing her and kept leaving the donation, expecting her to tell me to keep it since she owed me money. She took the money and said nothing. One time we walked out together and I reminded her she left the donation in the apartment. She shared the place with another provider so she didn't want to leave the money. She ran back to the apartment like an Olympic sprinter. When she came she didn't offer to give it to me for the loan. I reminded her about the loan once but I never demanded repayment - I simply stopped seeing her. The $1000 she got pales in comparison to what she lost from certain future visits from me - over $20,000 at least. Some hookers are very shortsighted.
lady #1. Asked to borrow a grand and she paid me back 2 weeks later. Never asked again but found out from two friends she asked them few weeks later. Two said yes and one said NO. Two guys said she never paid them back. Whoa! I got lucky and after 2 months she deleted all her ads and changed #'s.
lady#2. Asked to borrow 5k. I said for what she said she needed a down payment on car and I asked show me the information and I will go with you to dealer. She paused and said will talk about it after the session. After session I asked and she said why do you need to go with me to dealer? I replied so I don't get taken, robbed or this is all bullshit? She never brought it up again after our session. Find out a month later another guy fell for her thivery and was out now 10k. LOL He felt like a big dummy! Best thing part of this monger community is too have friends sometimes the intel can be very worth it! But, at the end of the day or night you have know one to blame but yourself if she robs or lies and never pays you back!
One I still meet up as provider, 2nd one was up in northern cal, first she was appreciative but my 2nd assistance was not acknowledged at all and when prodded her since I dont know if she got it, she said she was busy trying to get a ride back home as she went out of town. 3rd lady, she confirmed back and would see me when I get to LV.
Because of my experience on the 2nd lady, I dont do this anymore. .
I had a 10 year relationship who someone I met on ter, last year I started advancing her money, then helped her move out of state to be close to her family, lent her money to move. Was planning to move to be near her. Went out to see her a few times. Advance grew to $4,000. Then out of the blue she blocked all communication and did not say why. Lucky for me I would have done anything for her. Saved me a bundle, lol. Never lend money, with the idea they want to be with you. Its always about the money. I assume she found someone with deeper pockets
I have done it four times with ladies I have knows for some time. However, even in those cases I insisted they turn over collateral before making the load. I am always very honest with ladies and expect the same in return. But having collateral for a loan is simply helps ensure honesty and is basic common sense and basic business. With two of the four I did end up having to sell the collateral. In the cases I have seen, this tends to happen when they are trying to transition out of the business to a different line of work.
One case was because she had kids and got hit with multiple financial emergencies at once including a new custody fight. The other had tried to kill herself before and actually found myself in the middle of a suicide attempt. A financial problem was one of the triggers for this and I felt a loan was a must to get her through it. Both of them paid me back without my having to sell their collateral. One tuned out to be an unreliable pathological liar. She had partly paid me back but it became such a pain in the ass I finally decided it wasn't worth my time to keep dealing with her. In that case the collateral wasn't enough to cover the remaining debt, but it was close enough. Another was also addict but I didn't realize that until after making the load, she hid it well. She was also an unreliable pathological liar. In that case I sold her collateral for about double what she owed. However, it was more bother than I wanted to deal with because it was multiple items I had to sell both on eBay and locally on craigslist which took time. Bottom line is I think it's a good thing to do. You can really make a positive difference in their life if it's a bad enough emergency. However, unless it is a small amount you don't care about, always get collateral!
I have had about the same luck loaning money to hookers as any other women I have loaned money to, maybe even better. Of course I have rarely loaned more than a few hundred bucks to any provider I was seeing and that small amount is not really even considered a loan IMO, it's small enough to just be considered a gift.
That said, I do remember a hooker buddy who had been working for an agency and who wanted to go independent, she had the money to rent a nice incall location, but she was short a few thousand bucks to furnish it and I loaned her three grand or so and kind of forgot about it. A few months later we were having dinner, we'd get together about once a week or so for dinner. I was NOT a paying customer, we were just friends, but I digress. We were having dinner and she handed me a envelope, and it was every penny I had loaned her plus interest, she told me she took a certain amount of money out of each session she had and put it in a "Pay GaGa back" envelope until she had all my money plus interest saved up. lol Loaning money, serious money to ANYONE you are sleeping with is probably a bad idea, I make it a point not to loan hookers or SB's any more money than they can pay back to me with a free session or two. Anything more than that and you risk losing both the money and the girls you "used to" fuck. lol
Many providers I know needed help in the early stages during March and April, so I helped some of them with their rent obligations until business began to resume during May, once the smart people learned they were being sold a bill of goods my the political establishment. To date, all but one has paid me back completely.
With that said, I have always felt when it came to helping providers, I need to think of it as a gift rather than a loan, and not to expect to get paid back. Then if they do pay me, its a pleasant surprise. If they don't, I have nothing to be pissed off about, but learned that they cannot be trusted to keep their word, which is important when it comes to knowing which friends you can count on. I was also somewhat moved by the integrity of some of these ladies I helped, because several unexpectedly gave me a few free hours of session time as a thank-you on top of paying back every penny of the money they borrowed.
I'm saying this because nobody else will, not even the helped providers. Even worse you might be called ugly names by others. So it has to come from me to do it. Don't agree with the sound of what you're saying about the Covid. Just have to be a little careful if not to catch it but not to keep spreading it and continue in this situation. Thanks again from those providers. Even from the ones that would tell me, "don't thank him".
CDL is jerking off with the other. That's because the second hand is dedicated to masturbation.
Imagine what he says and use Donald Trump's adjectives, like "many, many" or "big, big, big" to describe the number of providers that he helped. He is dating so many concurrently that he's installed a coin dispenser in his cab to dispense his loans. I love that "SEVERAL" unexpectedly gave him a few FREE HOURS of session time. Thank god that K-Girls don't read this board or they would throw up.
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