so i was at Hyeri today.  and while standing in line i see some kid around 2 yrs old come over with her i assume is her mom and i make eye contact with the mom.   and bam!  i recognize her as this escort i saw a few months ago.  and she recognized me also.  quickly averted her eyes and quickly went by me with her kid and ignored me.  

back then i didn't post a review because even though she was sweet and nice girl her body and service were mediocre so didn't want to hurt her business.  at the time her body was terrible, her boobs were saggy and had stretch marks and her stomach was all loose skin and had stretch marks as well.  at the time i didn't think she had a kid.  i mean ive seen other girls before who had ugly bodies so didn't connect it.  and she was really young looking in the face and never imagined she would have a kid.  and im young so never seen a women's body that had a kid.   man, if saggy boobs with stretch marks is a sign off women who had a kid then that means Amber had a kid???!!!!!  i mean before her surgery she had hideous saggy boobs with stretch marks!!!  OMG!!  

anyway with that shock aside,  after seeing this girl at hyeri i feel gross!!!  i mean i was banging some mom who was supporting her 2yr old kid!!!!  at the time i knew she had a boyfriend but now i think she was married!!!  and this girl has popped up multiple times over the years.  and since the kid looked 2yrs old that means she was providing with the kid and husband!!  and she told me her boyfriend which looks like is really her husband knew she was providing!!!  yucko rama!!   how can she and her husband do this????  aren't they ashamed!! they have a daughter!!!

and to think i came in her mouth and had her rim me!!!  hurl!!!!  i feel so guilty right now!!!  and how in the world does that husband stand her working!!  i mean heck his wife was cuddling me and and screaming oppa and jagiya and moaning while i was penetrating her with my penis!!! even if its for the daughter's well being.  doesn't he and that girl have any pride and self worth???  what kind of man is this husband!!  hell he should be working 3-4 jobs if he has too!!  how can he let his wife do this??!!

someone tell me this isn't the norm!!  

Of course some of these girls have husbands and kids. Why wouldn't they? It's a job. The hobby draws all kinds. And your harsh judgement is one of the many reasons why providers generally do not share information about their personal lives.

Women who have had children - that's an obvious "no go" for you. Women who are married - also a "no go". Apparently even women who are in a relationship with a significant other are off your list, too. Also, I guess the physical effects of childbirth/multiple births on a woman's body are news to you.

You indignation over these women, having children, husbands or boyfriends and then having the audacity to engage in this profession seems very hypocritical and overly judgmental to me.

And, 'no' your view is not the norm.

They view the business as a job.  That's it.  They want your money.  You have money, you want sex.

Yes, this is common.  Happens all over the world, VERY common in 3rd world countries.  The world is not perfect, not nice, relationships are complicated.  

Stop thinking about it.  Don't feel guilty, move on.

Just remember her husband may be saying what kind of man does this to my wife.
Who cares. Are we to be priests or psychologists?
It all depends on whose ox is being gored.
Too much analysis. Let's get real.

....to i have the maturity level required to handle life on an adult level? Because I'm worried about you hon....and the fact that ur armed with a penis terrifies me in general....good god.....

this comment is what bothers me no end....

"doesn't he and that girl have any pride and self worth???"


Trust and believe that this job does not define who we are as people, just as your job does not define you as a whole. Nor is it a reflection of our worth. If the rate were based on our sense of self worth, no man could afford it......never pass judgement of a life you have no true grasp on.

To each is own and if she needs to hook to support herself then so be it! It's her life & her business

I do believe though that the husband should step it up and work multiple jobs to support her so she won't have to do this while raising a kid. But that's just me and I believe in more traditional values.

Happens even more than you think.  I think it's kind of kinky actually... damn, all that porn...

maturity level?

listen you chose to get into this so call "work".  because it was the easy way out to make the money you needed. you didn't want to work 2-3 jobs to try to make it.  you just wanted the easy way out.  thats not what i call a mature person.

and stop kidding yourself and calling this a job.  it always annoys me when provider girls i went out with always use this its "only work" excuse to explain their behavior.    i sure don't remember having any orgasms while typing at my computer in my office.

I give him 8 out of 10.  He got a few bites.  It was a bit over the top though, I don't believe anyone can really be that ignorant and self-hating.  Tone it down just a touch next time and I'll give you the full 10 (or just add anal to the menu if we're scoring by TER rules). :p

Dear korean bbq,

Are you kidding me?  You really think working gals have orgasms when they are with you?  Who's kidding who?  It is LITERALLY a "f*cking job"!  I really don't think this is a "easy way to make money" either.  You seem to have a huge chip on your shoulder with your ignorant posts.  Chill out, little man.

...at the time her body was terrible, her boobs were saggy and had stretch marks and her stomach was all loose skin and had stretch marks as well.  at the time i didn't think she had a kid.  i mean ive seen other girls before who had ugly bodies so didn't connect it. "

Dude, it's a horrible thing to say about a women. I understand your frustration and yes, from a moral point of view providing is not the most respectable "job", hobby or whatever you are calling this line of work. We all have our reasons to do it, some are less tragic than another but it's not an easy job and not an easy choice. So don't be so cruel and judgmental, you don't know what can happened in your life and how you would  compromise your moral values. One more thing: this job is not a picnic and  such mean remarks about somebody's physical appearances are horrible. I'm not sure that you fuck Megan Fox for free and on a regular basis. If you didn't like the girl, you should leave and don't traumatize yourself and later us describing how horrible she was. Seriously, grow up.

Never assume, and judging others is not my job.  I would hate for anyone to pass judgement on me as if your stuff don't stink be happy she rimmed you.  I love to get my ass worshipped!

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Wow bitter much? I recommend getting away from the hobby for a while, seriously, because its very clear that a few personal relationships gone sour have caused you to view all women in this profession in a spiteful way, and thats not cool.  Take some time away to heal and come to grips with whatever hurt was caused in those breakups. You'd be a better man for it

Taking it out on all of us because of a few bad apples isn't fair.....you don't know what our individual situations were like, nor do we owe you an explaination, but i can tell you beyond a doubt  that 95% of the time, there was a lot more to it than just 'I was bored and lazy and felt like bein a h*'

The psychological strain of being in this profession is not for the weak- you have to have a soul of metal somedays, and most could not handle it, including you sweetheart, so don't kid yourself and quit talkin shit.......please.

And aside from that, I had to SMH at the way you generalized all of us......I did work 3 jobs, 7 days a week at the time i got into this profession, and have worked 2 jobs to the bone since the age of 15. Before you assume anything, just remember, the word itself makes an ASS out of U and ME........

ok, actually, just you. But you can always become better. The world has enough hate inside it, your contribution is really not necessary. Be the bigger man....

who posts this in alias mode? someone experienced enough to step on all the right buttons and stir things up...

what are the chances you are going to run into someone you meet in this biz in real life ... very low, extremely low

and then he makes the jump from 'boyfriend' to 'husband' ???

idiot

not worth going on

the mods know who the alias is - this might be one that should be outed - as this is disturbing on so many levels