Her profile states that she screens and for her rates she sounds rather selective regarding clientele. Also inquire whether she is a member of any verification sites, knows ladies familar with TER,etc,etc. Only you can be the judge over the phone to proceed any further with her. Women tend to tour heavily this time of the year and sifting on fumes won't help you either!
I talked to her the other day and she is super nice on the phone .Unfortunetly she wants your work place and phone number ,your first and last name and references .I dont have problems with giving references but demanding my work place phone number and my last name is a invitation for way to paronoid .Im sure she is legit by just talking to her .But like a few weeks ago on this discussion board about giving your private info out .ILL PASS ON THIS ONE ! Too bad ..
The irony is that she'd be much safer using provider references than asking for work info. It's actually not that difficult to set up a fake identity these days and for LE its even easier. She does herself a big disservice and she's missing a lot of great high end clients.
You think a girl would be safer knowing where you work than speaking to other will known providers who've actually seen you? Will knowing where you work tell her if you're a jerk? abusive? hygienically acceptable? a time waster? No it doesn't. BUT it puts your personal information in the hands of a stranger with the potential to disrupt your civilian life, work and family, in an untold number of ways. Now don't get me wrong, I understand that a provider needs to feel safe. I just think there are many better ways of accomplishing that. I've seen plenty of high end providers in LA, LV and NY and never had to give them my work info. I've been on TER for years and have dozens of reviews to my credit. My referrals are well known and easy to contact. If that is not enough, or she's too cheap to buy a membership so she can check, then I move on.
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