I'm at that point. The guilt/near-misses/nonsensical explanations are outweighing the joy I (mostly) have with providers. I'm not "addicted" yet I'm compulsive. Though I think I'm ready to settle down.

Can someone throw a bucket of ice (no water) at my face any time to snap me out of this Pleasant Valley Nightmare?  

Thanks!

"Stay cool, honey bunny!"

Maybe the frequency of the visits can become less, but never hang up the towel

...where I was having great fun & success in a different sex venue, so I gave this hobby a rest. When I did recently try to come back, I had a back-to-back cancellation and a NCNS. Fucking great. I thought to myself "Self - fuck this. Stripclubs are really what you love anyway. Just stick with that and you'll be happy". But I was still window shopping here (compulsive) just for the hell of it when I spotted an ad that intrigued me. Long story short (!) I just got back from her incall and I'm on cloud 9.

TL;DR - Hang in there.

Why is it even a decision that has to be made?

 I used to shoot pool a lot. Then I started doing other things and shot less until I just stopped going to the pool halls altogether. Never thought about should I or shouldn't I quit playing pool.

For awhile I liked to collect rare coins. I don't anymore, but I can't remember ever making a conscious decision to stop.

Same with paragliding, except I realized that I was getting old and lugging the chute up the hill was becoming drudgery, so that might have been a little more of a decision.

But what if you didn't set an appointment for a session and just spent your time doing something else? Not resolving to Never Again, or marking the day you quit on a calendar? Just wander away from it.

It seems to me, if you feel that you actively have to make an effort to stop doing something, that the compulsion has gone too far. To me that would say, Addiction, and I've dealt with addictions. Being addicted to anything is not a good thing, at least not in my book.

But if, as you say, you're not addicted, then just do something else and know that if you ever want to come back to the hobby that you'll have no trouble finding a beautiful provider or two or twenty. No need to put pressure on yourself about it.

lopaw, should we expect a review soon?????

Lopaw if you were straight, I'd marry you site unseen so we could go to strip clubs all the time.

Hi WOODDR2! (waving furiously!)

Yes indeed.....I will submit a review tomorrow. Hopefully it will be up in only a day or two.

I wonder if we were ever married what would become of our household budget with all of the clubbing!

END OF MESSAGE

3 out of 4 appointments were cancel the night before or the morning of (for various reasons). I thought it was just me having bad luck. Is there a shortage of providers in LA or what? LOL

but I can't help it...

I quit-  then I see an ad, do some research and then I'm hooked again.

The problem in LA is there are so many insanely good providers - It's an addict's worst nightmare or dream scenario...

You Pick - Ha!

...coz one cancel or NCNS is bad enough, but multiples back to back is crazy.

It sounds bad but I find visiting ladies much more reliable, no doubt due to their need to recoup hotel and travel costs.  

C'mon local LA ladies......prove me wrong!

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Wow tour ...girl.. Hope she is not in Florida....  my pray  for those people ...  

Well  must have good karma so far in couple years I had no bad experience just once but was too new on screening..
cancelation had some  this year..   but shit happens ...I had one cancellation this  year 2 hour before the date...
But the  he was so awesome that 'without me ask' ..HE reimburse my full donation!!!!   I must be  a lucky bitch  
I must say...I will leave the hobbie  So far with no Regrets and very good memories..
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