A client recently asked me whether or not women like to watch men masturbating. I responded that watching your partner masturbating is a far more common sex practice than one would assume. It increases sexual intimacy. It always is the SEXUAL RESPONSE in your partner which stimulates most, when having sex with each other. Many people are not aware of this. If playing with your partner, she/he responds with body signs of arousal and this, reversed, arouses you again, in a sense of a "sexual feedback". Most men enjoy to watch women playing with themselves. (Many men also get stimulated when watching their woman focusing her attention on herself, for example putting make-up on in front of a mirror, creaming or showering the body etc.). Why should this not be the same reversed, women watching men masturbating. I went on to say, never worry too much what others like to do in the bedroom or what is considered ‘normal’. Just always assure that your chosen lover/ partner feels comfortable with whatever you prefer to do.

Such a great, articulate post Julienne! I personally love to watch both men and women pleasure themselves. I find it to be a HUGE turn on for many, many reasons I think men would do it more freely if they knew just how much some of us really, really love it!

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...for one, it's incredibly flattering if they're pleasuring themselves in front of me based on my teasing them, dancing, etc.. talk about an ego trip

First time I was asked to do that by someone I really like, I wasn't sure what to think but I respond to requests quite well.  WOW!!  It's now part of our play time when we get to share and I'm looking forward to adding a bit more spice next time (getting the right music- Alice in Chains/Man In The Box?).   I definitely agree with your analysis of the sexual feedback loop...  There is some seriously major signal amplification going on with this bit o' fun!!

It Always Turns Me On.  
I'm Always Asking To Watch A Guy Touch Himself, Until I Can't Control Myself.  
And Hearing A Man Moan While Stroking Himself, Mmm.  

If my partner is turned-on on me as well... then I LOVE TO WATCH..  with
a plenty of EYE contact, maybe some body to body rubbing, and wild kisses in the mean
time... And  OHHH  and  nice big mirror helps!...

but on the other hand if my partner is bored and looking at the cracks on the ceiling or
worse not paying attention on me
I  LEAVE the room... LOL
I LOVE ATTENTION!!!
CC

i personally love watching guys masterbate in front of me

A girlfriend and I used to have regular Skype masturbation sessions when I was traveling frequently. The first time it happened rather spontaneously during a late night call. From there it became a regular thing that we really enjoyed whenever I was on the road. Interestingly, we never masturbated when we were together, just on Skype when we were apart.

You know how to make a guy's day, don't you?

follow the good example as a good catholic girl

sounds hot, I am in Los Angeles and have a very nice cock that I would love for someone to look at and have some fun.  ha499   yahoo  is my email if you wanna private me. thanks alot.  clean and friendly  

that you really enjoyed sucking my cock.  At least that is what your eyes told me.  Each time!!!

um yeah  prob not. lol... :

I did peep shows for years and enjoyed watching the men jerk off and show off for me

THe way he pleases himself, strokes his cock, responds to his own touch - that is how I learn to touch that man as we are all wired differently for pleasure.  Watching my lover masturbate is a real turn on!

It's sexy as f*ck, to see a man stroke his shaft. Men stroke it differently than women...  
But what I find very sexy about a mans hand....is the curvature of his thumb...and first finger.. as those are the main two fingers that grip/stroke his shaft.