I am your age and guys like us

...are lucky if we can turn on a light bulb, much less a young provider. If you doubt me, just go look in the mirror or, worse yet, take a look at a recent photograph of yourself. Shockingly sad.

I am an older hobbyist and have wondered about this myself.  I finally came to the conclusion that there are providers who prefer older partners because:  1) we are less likely to be LE.  2) we usually go for one pop (maybe I am speaking about myself here). 3) we tend to be kinder & more gentler. 4) Less likely to flake out on them.

I have never ask any provider about this so the above are my speculations..  In any case, I am paying the freight so as long as they don't outwardly show they are disgusted, I don't really think too much about it.  Just enjoy.

the question to know the answer.  Of course not!

As another poster said, they may like us because as clients go, we're easy.  But to think we turn them on sexually is beyond fantasy and into bizarro universe territory.

This was true even when I was 40 and traveling to Korea.  The escorts we'd see liked us because we were American and treated them better than the locals, but it was obvious they weren't being turned on sexually by any of us (we were all around the same age).  I'm willing to go way out on a limb and say that the situation hasn't improved now that I'm 60.

Don't worry, you're not the only one that's delusional.  Every time I see a girl out in public that I think would be just perfect for me, some goofy-looking 20-year old walks up and puts his arm around her!  Why can't she see how much better I'd be for her than that kid!  Yeah, in my dreams.

If you look as good as possible and keep yourself in good shape and don't walk in like a fat old fool  and most importantly know what you're doing in the sack and have the energy to do it, I know from personal experience that some of these 20 something ladies will get turned on. They may not want you for a boy friend or husband but when you feel a pussy getting wetter you know something good is happening for them.
You can fake the screams and moans but you can't fake a wet pussy. That, in addition to liking the fact that you are safe and possibly gentler, makes it a good old time for many of the young providers. Especially the Asians who don't look at age the way we usually do. So for those who have the concern all I can say is go to the gym, add a little color to your hair, make the time together about the two of you and not just you and I'm sure the reception will get better.
I'm sure there are some oldies who have had the same experience as I have had. You know what I mean.

thank you for your responses. I know that us "oldies" can turn the young ones on - hey, they can close their eyes, and pretend - as our years of experience turns them on.  I was just wondering not only how the hobbyiest feel, but was hoping to get some responses from providers as well - so providers, please chime in, I would appreciate it. Thank you.

in her mid-30's, the other in her mid 20's. My age has never been as issue with either of them. Of course I have limitations, but I've learned to deal with them and thoroughly enjoy every session.