The situation that I am in is very strange to say the least. I want to, in my heart of heart, do the right thing. And I have consulted some fellow hobbyist and some companions who have shown to be willing to listen. I am hoping to use this forum (which I believe is very active) to get some more information/ideas from both hobbyists and companions alike.

Based on the providers response, I'm guessing that the, "...inappropriate, incessant, and boundary pushing behaviour..." is the reason.

Not to belittle your frustration, which I am sure is ample, I'm not sure it actually matters why they've cut you off.

MOVE ON!

Seems you may have been blowing up her email/text, coming off needy. And it seems you weren't a gentleman....but learn from it. Her reasons, for whatever they are should be enough for you to move along.
It just hit me, you're the guy that gives 10's like it's Halloween. Now it makes sense, you became infatuated with her, you were, in her eyes, stalking her. You basically creep her out.

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There was a thread last week where  you didn't seem to get it either.  Proof that you don't get it is you expect to have "more information" progressing into the "next chapter" by Friday.  What didn't you understand about "refrain from sending me more emails."  Its really not that confusing.   I think you're going to have nothing but crickets by Friday from her.  I could be wrong, but I don't think so.  

...may have talked to the provider who doesn't want to see you any more.

but you posting this to the active LA board is consistent with  

He posted this thread a couple of weeks ago on a different regional board.  I don't normally call out someone like this, but he seriously has some delusions of where the lines/boundaries are.  

Not more than two-three weeks ago on another board and here you are again.  

Nope

She has listed "all my inappropriate, incessant and boundary pushing behaviors" in the email, and those all came to me as huge surprises, because the entire duo progressed smoothly and every one had fun, with longing goodbyes and "can't wait to see you again", filled with lovely chats and the confirmation of "can't wait to read your review and get me excited again" talk.

Maybe I am just so "fucking stupid"

that is possible; define "too much", because this companion had used social media to demonstrating using one of the gift cards that I had given her, she then also sent me an email on the same day to thank me for the gift, with appreciation; and this was just 2/3 days right before our duo.

I think you are right on, assuming that the person who "sent" me the email is indeed the person who I met, that is the problem I have; the rest of email in both tone, language, composition, are very inconsistent with how this companion has come across in person.

I only emailed her to arrange the duo meeting; and because she is in different city, it takes time to get a duo right, if you want the duo to happen, due to many moving parts.

You are right that there won't be any emails from her. I don't expect any.  

I have indeed asked the other companion's feedback

I agree with you. I have chosen to go through a car wash, knowing it will be/hopefully cleansing.

Great that you like binary, "yes"/"no", as life is black and white.

This is clearly a post designed to give YBenL a forum for prolonged attention. Dribbles of info, shifting stories, inconsistent positions, flawed logic....  BYE BYE to this goofball thread and the goofball behind it.

I know a few Dous that could help cheer you right up!!

"Wow, the really escalated quickly"

worn out his welcome on his local board, so now we get the "pleasure" of his company.

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Don't let him email you.  I already have little use for this ass clown. If comes back a third time I'm going to start using the hash tag Got Rope associated with his posts.

Wanted to share the overwhelming euphoric state that this putz brings.

Thank you to all of your advices, suggestions, blames, trolls.

No Russian interference will be allowed. Cast your votes

She "promised"/indicated that she wanted to see me again soon; and the immediate email right before this LAST email she indicated that she "would love to meet with me again"; and less than 12 hours later I got the LAST EMAIL.

It's a lifetime revocation.

As clickbait-y as this whole thing has been, I am morbidly curious as to what actually happened.

I have laid out for you what have actually happened from my side of the story.

Some girls are legitimately crazy, but I wouldn't jump to conclusions.

Well, have you ever heard that a person doesn't see them-self as others see them?  I suspect that's what's going on.

We were flirting on social media and via emails before this duo.

And yes I have learned that "let's watch a film together next time ...I will let you use my handcuffs and other toys" as in less than 48 hours later "don't want to see you ever again", and that is entirely possible as it had happened to me.

And for any providers reading this,you aren't setting your best foot forward and sound rather scary. Red flags allllll over this.

What damaging effects could they possibly have done? They don't want to see you anymore? You should include that then!!

... than to have never lusted and paid at all.

Or are you thinking of taking the plunge yourself? Do you really the need a 10/10 review that bad....I'm sure your business would do just fine without him...or maybe not.
I gotta admit, I'm surprised that you'd put yourself out there....but to each their own.

And if I were to stay true to wanting to see her and making sure she is well, and taken care of, my writing a review, while is perfectly my choice; and allowed by TER rules to include the emails and how they have shocked me; won't help her a bit, in fact it would hurt her and I don't want to cause any harms.

Even though the poor old sod has not discovered the true nuggets in San Diego yet -

Ha ha!

NO!!!!  Don't consider sharing any other information.  

Ultimately when you "push the envelope" you will eventually piss off someone.  
Only you know what you did and where you crossed that line. Reflect on it and become a better person.
You have received very good advice from the community, Move On....

I hear you. Being a man sometimes means it is ok to not escalate and get into a lose/lose situation.

Yep moving on; I still don't know what I did wrong; and believe me when A lady says stop or tells me she is uncomfortable during a meeting, I would stop right away what I was doing. In fact I would even tell a lady play by play what I am about to do during a meeting, and this companion told me in person before she left our duo, in no uncertain term, face to face and she wanted to see me again soon!

Yes, listening to you and others and shutting it down.

What part didn't you understand then that miraculously you understand now.  I get the feeling this is you usual method and that the only reason they are putting up with your shit is because you give them 10/10 reviews.  I'm sure if given the chance they'd rather have their sanity back and deal with a one off review score.

The hobby world needs someone like you to function. I won't expect anything less, or you might be getting old and sick.

more to the story that your divulging?

is that you give everyone a 10/10, so you have no credibility as a reviewer.  If you suddenly write one that  is 6/6 or something near that, everyone will know there is some issue between you and her and its a retaliation review, which will be ignored by legit hobbyists.  

I wish there were. I think I might have found a way to write about it; don't know yet.

it is possible that someone else got control of her e-mail account.  It would not be the first time a mad boyfriend, girlfriend, or such did something like that.  There was a provider on P411 once that had someone get into her P411 account.  The person changed her rate to free and changed her phone number.  When I googled the number, I got a hit for an ad that had a large AA transvestite dude.  Need to say, P411 quickly suspended her account.   So I would not write a review on this issue.

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He pulled this same bullshit a few weeks ago on a different board.  Every lady who reads this thread or the other one should take note of what they should expect to have to contend with if they chose to deal with him.  

"why so serious?"

In that city within the last month, all clients' email addresses were taken, and each of her clients received an email from an address that looks and feels the same as the hacked companion's email (except just one misplaced letter), telling them their appointments have been cancelled and/or she did not want to see them anymore.

I don't find joy writing retaliation reviews. I believe I might have found a way to write a tasteful review while stating the facts as I know them. I mean the duo was so hot and awesome it will be a shame not to capture the play by play actions so when you choose to read it, you can't help yourself but go straight to "doing" whatever you do!

You are right on!

I think Jimi had the answer:

osted 11/26/2016 at 7:50:19 AM
YBenL

Completely different lady and we had reconnected in both person and spirit.

Welp, looks like Mia did her homework, let's all pack up and call it folks.

If this thread doesn't end soon I am going to drop another 8 paragraph of a story on Ya'll to kill it off...

Just kidding.  Please don't.

This is how this guy operates.  He does stupid shit and then comes on here with the "why me" routine.  This is now the third known time he's done this.  He may have older posts that nobody has found on some other regional board.  

Thanks for chiming in. You can step all over me you want with your opinions, and how much you think I suck and how terrible you believe I might have handled the situation as a hobbyist.

Mia, whilst i get that you may have a bone to grind with the OP, i don't think outing his past reviews having given him a bad reference is a good idea.

OP, i really don't know what you hope to gain from your post. Your relationship with the provider was business not personal.

You've posted a number of times since then? Come on Cappy, admit it, you love a train wreck as much as anyone.

This ass clown repeatedly does this same shit.  I mean seriously, explain to me how person with that many reviews is completely fucking confused about how this world works.  

I am here to listen to different points of view and I purposely seek them. By coming to this board, I have effectively acknowledged that I was dead wrong in how I have understood this companion.

You might be right and it is me who is having difficulty trying to handle the situation, as it is presented. What was difficult is the timing. It is literally "hey we had a great time and love to see you again" to "bye and you have made me uncomfortable".

While it is painful for me, I can not change the outcome this other companion's decision not wanting to meet with me again.

This provider has the right anytime to say no for any reason (gasp! Even if your dick was inside her she can still say no!). What do you not understand about that???? Sometimes people say nice things to be cordial and to make a quick exit. She obviously doesn't want to see you regardless of what she said at first. ..that is the only thing that matters. She has that right to do so and your sniveling,self deprecating posts are enough to make anyone put you on a DNS list. No money in the world is worth listening to your mindless babble. You asked for help and answers and you received plenty. Why isn't that good enough to move on and stop demonizing this poor girl?????You sound borderline obsessive and down right scary. I sure do hope this girl is saving everything' you sent along the way.

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All that being said...

Shaunna takes first place for her use of the words "cringey" and "whilst".

Thanks for chiming in. I hope you will keep the same sentiment if you choose to the read the review I likely will write, and should have no problem whatever scores I will give to the review.