Lick Lick,

With someone I have spent time with, I appreciate a fine & take  for a mutually enjoyable time.  Experiencing Bondassage for the first time, giving control to someoneI care about takes a leap of faith, and was worth it.  
"She used me, neither one cared.  Working for the Night Moves".
🤠

very enjoyable for me.  Not into bondage or anything like that, but letting her set the pace is just fine.

I love when a woman takes charge.

grab your wallet and takes the money cards and cash  and the keys to your car?  
Well my wallet is empty and my car is a piece of junk.  
Turn off I guess. But some people are into that type of thing.

U never answered your own question. Which is it for u Ashley. Curious minds want to know. Ha ha

The question is for men, silly. Lol.

when you take control is it a turn on or turn off?  

who the lady is.    My nature is to take charge (who saw that coming, right?  Lol), so on first appointments with a new provider I prefer to lead the way.   If I know she has the skills and experience to drive us to our destination, then I  don't mind giving her the keys, so that means I will rarely do it with a girl I'm seeing for the first time.  So that means sometimes its a turn-on and other times its a turn-off.