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What are reasons why a repeat would flake!?angry_smile
ashley_angel 483 reads
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I was scheduled to see a repeat client tonight. I have seen him at least 5-6 times in the last year or so. He has cancelled before a couple of times but he always let me know, he has never flaked EVER! It has been a couple of months since I have seen him and last time I heard from him, he asked me about a "special rate" I could give him. Since I have seen him a lot, I granted him one, but that didn't go anywhere. Now last night he texted me to see if I was available but I wasn't at the time. Then, he started asking me questions about my rates and stuff again and he already knows this information and he knows my website, so I didn't understand why he'd ask again. I kept in mind it had been awhile since I've seen him and maybe he has seen other providers so I confirmed rates per hour and we set something up for tonight. An hour before, I sent him a text telling him I'll see him at 10 and he did not respond. I went there, and he did not pick up or reply to my texts. What's up with him?!?

crazyshit225 reads

I screwed up a few days ago with a provider who I have seen for years.  Never asked her for a discount, but she has me grandfathered in at a low $140.  That was a bodyrub rate, but basically our sessions are GFE.  She has never asked for more money, and I appreciate that and book with her as often as I can.

On Wednesday I was supposed to see her at 7 pm (I booked her at 2 pm or 3 pm).  I got called into a meeting late at work, and completely spaced.  First time I ever did that, and largely because I didn't put it in my iPhone calendar with a reminder.  Typically this would never happen but it did this time.

I realized at 10 pm I was NCNS.  She didn't text me asking me where I was or anything.  But I had screwed up, so I texted her back apologizing profusely and said I would pay for that missed session.  She said she realized something must have come up and didn't chase me on text, but I still feel bad.

I think she is being sincere as opposed to passive/aggressive, but these things happen.

So give it 24 hours.  If he doesn't come back, that's really bad form.  Especially since you have been flexible and given him concessions in the past.

Very sorry to hear that.  These situations suck.

...like he's having financial issues.  Thinking with his schlong first then backing up when "common sense" says he can't really spend the money.

I've seen this happen to a few people before.

I would say more than likely something came up ... more than likely family or wife related.
Just wait for him to text you and hope that everything is OK on his end!

Pilot_Virtual171 reads

If you didn't actually speak to him and just texted, it might not have been him...possibly a snoop looking at his phone trying to get info about you. Just a theory.

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