I had a client today who walks in and before he gets undressed tells me how much money he is going to give me and what he wants to do and expects in our time together. Before he could finish I showed him the door, "saying I never discuss business, EVER!". Talk about a turn off and a deal breaker


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...an impression of him when you communicated him before your meeting?

Very nice emails. He seemed kinda stiff when he came through the door, I thought he might just be nervous and then got to the room and it swiftly went down hill from there. Talking about my special but he was going to pay me extra and when he was going to put on the condom, Yikes!

Glad you showed him the door, which is exactly what he deserved.

"Things to usually avoid saying when contacting a provider" 2/27/2011 11:00 AM

Also see my response to Sinnamon's posting. It is virtually impossible to be in business without discussing business.

I agree that this person's actions were highly suspicious, detailing verbally an outline of what he would spend, what acts he expects to perform with you, etc. All seems geared toward a set up. You were correct to show him the door.

It is imperative that providers check out their clients. Get a name, phone number, place of work, etc. Check his references, get a physical description from his references (so that you are assured the person outside your door bears some semblance to the person described). Google the name, phone number, check out his TER postings and written reviews, etc. Protect yourself.

As for the hobbyist, do your own research. Read every page of the lady's website. Read her reviews thoroughly. Know her pricing structure, activities she is comfortable with, etc.

Gives new meaning to the term "premature ejaculation".  He's a knucklehead.

If he was LE, it would be over.  Lots of guys are into making the deal up front with terms.  But i think they need to realize this is not a purchase and sale of a subway franchise, there is no letter of intent, you have to let the provider be in charge as it is part of the way they work and you cannot avoid the scam because as we know, WL.

just a newbie or moron ..if he was LE she would have been arrested..