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tell them what you like.  if what they are doing, including making sure they enjoy the experience as well as you do, is not doing it for you, don't be shy (but do be polite) about saying so.  

don't be mean, just be frank.  they are not mind readers.  even in civilian encounters, it's up to each individual to communicate what they expect to get out of the session, what they like, and what gets them off.

a well-rounded human being will also be able to also see to their partner's needs as well, envelope or no

Intuitive

I feel one should be intuitive and tune into what the client needs and wants. I try to find out ahead of the session what a clients interests are and if I don't think we're a match, I'll politely tell them so.

Everything comes in waves, maybe you just  a bad wave of incompatibility with the providers you saw. Its happens.

Well that sucks!

Find a provider that loves to please & be pleased ask some reputable gents who hobby here & write honest reviews.

Communication is the key to everything.  No one can read another person's mind, so that makes it even more important that both parties talk to each other.  When I first started this, after screening through email, every lady I saw insisted we talk on the phone before the date.  It was a way to break the ice, get to know each, find out your expectation and flirt a little to get the ball going for the session.  Its very sad to see this not happening anymore, everyone now waits to do this when you are both dangling your feet off the bed on the first meeting.  

There is nothing wrong pleasing the woman you are with and you should be for what she is doing for you.  I had three great ladies that I connected with on a regular basis. With all of them, I had/have a wonderful relationship with that it is more of a friendship than business. But, as all of them have said,  this is still a business and they have to give back to me for what I give to them.  Even if the line is a little greyer, the line is still there.  We both have responsibilities to make it a memorable experience.  

I strongly suggest you contact that lady and communicate your feelings.  If she is a woman that does care about her clients, I am sure she will make it up to you.  If she does not, then screen the ladies you see better.  They screen us, there is nothing wrong with you screening them. If they object, you got your answer there.  

Good Luck


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