What expressions of appreciation you offer a k-girl is of nor concern to Booker/agency. The girls appreciate a good tip but also getting them a Starbuck, a piece of cake or a salad would be greatly appreciated.

Personally I do not go for for the more expensive, intimate or personal gifts some guys shower ATF with because the could create unfounded expectations and blur the line between client and boyfriend.

I also do not appreciate having some providers ( non K-girls)  list a gift/wish list on their web sites listing Dom , Prada, LV , Chanel for gifts.

Show your token of appreciation to your departing ATF but do not go overboard. Common sense will serve you well.

Posted By: WhatTheFuuk

Are there any protocols to follow when giving a gift to a k-girl? Normally, I wouldn't even think about that. But there is one, in particular, who has been wonderful to me -- above and beyond the call of duty. And she is about to head back to Korea. Can I give her a gift with a kind note without violating any rules or customs of the agency that employs her? Is there anything i SHOULD do. Anything I should NOT do? I may sound overly cautious here, but I don't want to even take a chance of upsetting the agency and possibly losing access to their beautiful women in the future.

When I say "gift," of course, I mean something in addition to the 250 flowers I am already giving her

If you are talking about a personal item -- even a very expensive item -- a Rolex or something in the several thousand range -- that is nobody's business but your own.  You pay your donation, the agency gets its cut.  If you tip the gal, I assume she keeps the tip.  If you give her a watch or purse or something nice, it's hers.  Period.  I sincerely doubt the agency has an agreement with the girl concerning gifts....  RT Over & Out

Your gift is your business. The agency doesn't care.
They are getting their cut and remember this.
The  price of the gift doesn't matter. They make so much
that you can't give them what they can't buy themselves.
Give a token of appreciation if you like but don't make
a big deal out of it because it isn't.

if you give things like candy, perfume etc...most likely she will sell it or regift it or not eat it or trash it.   i got too many of those regifts from my exs to know.  

cash is best.  more the merrier.  not all girls make alot of money working here in LA only few are busy so any cash gift will be appreciated.

I have been guilty of this but have toned it down considerably. Some stuff are appreciated but some others get thrown in the trash...A good friend says don't give lingerie or items related to the business, that is  like giving an Eskimo some snow...or a camel some sand...Keep it impersonal to show appreciation and not adoration....but a good tip is always best..

I may be old fashioned in this, but i think a gift should be thoughtful. If you're going that far, have her remember your gesture. If you happen to see her perfume on a date, keep a mental note and offer her a bottle as a gift. She will remember you at that special time she makes herself pretty.

It is up to guys if they want to give gifts to their ATFs. However guys better remember that our hobby is ultimately a business transaction.  Personally, I am paying more than enough to these girls so I don't bother with tips nor gifts.  What other jobs these girls can make $150 tax free money per hour?  $250 to most regular Joes is not a small amount of money.  For someone who flips burgers for living or washes your car, they have to work like a dog for many hours.

I have never been one to tip a provider.  If I return to see a provider 3-4 times, that's more money they are making from me than any tip I could have left.  Even K-girls make good money.  I'm positive they make more than I do, even though I can afford to treat myself.  $250 is still a lot of money to me and over time it adds up.

Since I never tip, you would think that I wouldn't give a gift either.  That's true, except for one time recently.  Have you ever saw something that you thought or knew a friend of yours or SO would appreciate? So, you went and bought it and gave it to them for no reason, just because?  That's the protocol I followed.

I have seen my ATF more than I have seen anyone else, ever, and really like her and we get along well.  She has even given me a gift in the past for a certain holiday.  I was pleasantly surprised to say the least.  Based on our conversations I knew what hobby she enjoys and decided that I wanted to give her something related to the hobby she likes the next time I saw her.  It was under $100, but a nice item.  She certainly seemed to appreciate it.  I don't know if the gift played a part, but I had the most memorable time with her that night.   Absolutely, ranked #1 hot time if I had to rank my top 5.

Giving a gift is a nice gesture that says I like you and think of you or simply that the receiver of the gift is appreciated.