I made the analogy, elsewhere, that it's much like when I would have to keep the stats for a the baseball team I was on. Those of us sitting on the bench would take turns keeping them. While keeping the stats, I would feel totally detached from the the game, but when free from the task, the experience was so much different. If I have to think about having to remember everything that goes on with the woman I'm with, it takes me out of the experience. I know I forget a lot, and I've read criticisms by guys complaining about reviews lacking all the details. But, why am I there? To write reviews or have a good time?  

What they wore. Therefore, I never make apparel requests. Next are the tats. I don't mind them, but I rarely remember them. The rest I pretty much remember.