A few days ago a posted a message about a high end provider who blew me off without any notice.  The next day she came up with a plausible explanation and I said I would give her the benefit of the doubt.  A number of you said I was a sucker to believe her explanation.  Well we set up another appointment and guess what.  30 minutes before meeting time she said she couldnt make it.  Was somewhere else.  I left work early, drove and wasted time.  I acknowledge the superior judgement of my fellow TER members and admit I was wrong.   In the end I just beat off and was $600 richer.

Sorry to laugh, I am laughing with you.  I've probably yanked the chain enough to where the money I saved  was a nice stash.

Yeah, it's definitely time to out this flake. Twice in a row? That just screams for a little payback. Let the bros know who she is so we can avoid her.

She might give her side of the story.  48 reviews and dissed twice.  This second post on the matter calls attention to a $600 high end provider, so let us know.

she has a side to her story.  The following day she texted me and asked how she can make it up to me.  In both instances she claims something occured that forced her to cancel.  In the first case she lost her phone so she couldnt contact me.  In any case I dont intend to do anything that could hurt her business but I wont be seeing her again unless.......

But somehow I think that would only lead to more stories from more hobbyists who had the exact same experience with her

Unless Lucy pulls away the football again?

So you have reviews, whitelists, and if this is a provider you wanted to see, you obviously have been screened, checked and good to go.  First time she flakes and according to you, gives a plausible explanation which you give her the benefit of the doubt.  Cancellations and or no call, no shows occur due to emergencies, change of mind, better offer, etc.  Now it happens again and you post this.  For what?  Obviously you want to make a point about something, bring attention to this occuring again, so business aside, what's the purpose, to say you are a sucker?  Out her!

Why post if you arent even willing to pm guys, "hey, I got flaked on by this girl twice, she may be fun, but she canceled on me twice"