Just found a provider I would love to see but her ad says that she wants my occupation, company name, and work number

-- Modified on 12/16/2015 4:38:54 PM

I do not book ANYBODY, without that info....It's too CRAZY out there, to risk our safety...

you have several reviews and I'm assuming a couple of those providers can act as references. Most providers have multiple options for verification. Will she accept two recent references instead of the personal info? Or is she requesting occupation, company name, and number regardless of references?  

Some men will get  good references to gain trust, only so they can abuse a woman, or rob her.  

I think it is unnecessary. If she is really paranoid she can pick 5 and send 5 emails...

I think a provider should do any and all types of verification she wants to feel comfortable and safe. Some clients will never see a provider if any personal info is required, but I'm sure most of these providers regard this loss in clientele as the cost of safety. Unfortunately, as you mentioned, there is no absolutely guaranteed way to screen out violent and abusive clients. It's too bad that a few asshats and frauds make it difficult for the majority of clients that are just looking for a good time.

100% agree - It's not needed and stupid to transmit your personal information - why take such a risk? DO NOT DO IT! What are you gaining???

I understand all of your concerns gentleman.  However,  consider a beautiful encounter with a lady who would love to have a great time and please you.

i cant believe this topic.  

...and I support their concerns for safety.  But I reiterate: never give out your personal info.  Ever.

-- Modified on 12/17/2015 5:53:29 PM

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You accept money for sex which yes, makes you a whore.  But if you find prostitute less offensive, then I apologize for calling you a whore.  Whore is more a character trait, versus prostitute as a profession.  

Quit polluting my thread you fucking asshole

I no longer provide this information, since I can now schedule appointments without sendig this info.  But when I first started, I did provide the info to someone who I researched very thoroughly.  She had a well known persona on here, and my judgement was that she could be trusted.   That was three years ago, and I still see her.   She has provided intros and references over that time frame, and her guidance has made the hobby much safer and more rewarding than it would have been if I had never seen her.    

If you have no info to research, no p411, no countless whitelists, we are just as able to end up in handcuffs. I have had people tell me tons of stories, refuse their info, etc. and soon enough their name and info pops up on blacklist for dangerous reasons, strangling providers, etc. in this state or other reasons.. Safety is a priority in this hobby. I prefer to wait, then rush and take my chances. Never a problem providing extra security from clients because safety makes the appointment better..

-- Modified on 12/18/2015 9:25:14 PM

Tolerance for risk is different - exactly... I have a pretty high tolerance (I kinda get off on it TBH).

on my first attempt to get an appointment when I started the hobby.  After that, I usually just contact touring girls directly in various cities who will vouch for me with their current booker.  Then I'm good with that booker to see other girls that he/she books for.