i figure, even if you're an insurance adjuster or garbage collector, unless you enjoy what you do, you're wasting your life.
and i would think a provider has the benefit of getting to have sex at work. geez, what a great job lol!hey, this is an old post from 2010, so pardon me if this has been discussed before.
surfing the net last night i stumbled across this "rant" from an "upscale denver escort." now, bear in mind it came from craig's list, so there's a red flag right there.
but this woman seems to hate all the guys she's been with...and i think a lot of hobbyists wonder if the lady they are with secretly feel the same way.
i'm hoping this girl is atypical. i mean, if you hate the people you are with and constantly choose to be with them for money, that doesn't say much about you, does it?
thought?
On some level I doubt it was written by a real escort but if it was she is likely someone who is struggling in the business with an attitude like that.
Or a bad lifetime. So much venom!!
there was a similar rant making the rounds from a provider with many of the same complaints. Also, occasionally a girl comes on the board under an alias and says how she has been faking it for years and that most men disgust her. While what we talk about on this board is definitely an "exchange" of favors, not true love, I can't imagine a high-end provider lasting very long unless she enjoys her work.
i figure, even if you're an insurance adjuster or garbage collector, unless you enjoy what you do, you're wasting your life.
and i would think a provider has the benefit of getting to have sex at work. geez, what a great job lol!
at least, that's what one lady told me!
it must be why most providers last 2-3 years because they love the job. It's all about the green..it is better to suck up being an escort for 2 yrs than 20 yrs rolling burgers. I guess most hobbyists cannot comprehend that the percentage of women who actually like this is probably less than 5%. I do not care if she likes it or not I am there for my enjoyment not hers.
I feel particularly sorry for the low-end girls, who can't get out after two years, or 20. But there are a few women--very few--who were on TER before I joined and who still are working.
a 20 something to like banging a 50 something may be ugly or overweight?
ok, just kidding, don't get pissed.
but, yeah i would expect her to like some aspect of it, or at least not hate it. other wise she's wasting her life. because if you don't love what you do for a living, you aren't living. you are dying.
Trying to put myself in the 20 yo position. Here's what most likely happens.She gets the call, the guy sounds cool over the phone. She's not going to ask what he looks like because that come off as "if you're not model material then don't bother". Most women don't ask for pictures,although some do now. She'll ask the right questions, job,age and ethnic background. The guy gets to the door and he's close to 300lbs and probably reminds her of her uncle Louie. But he's there with 3-400 bills. She then says to herself, "it's only an hour" so she goes through with it. It's better then sending him home with blue balls. She may not love that "hour" but it doesn't mean that all clients come in like that. So in part she probably hated that hour. There's going to be good with the bad...hopefully there's more good, which I feel there is.
Make sense....huh?
not many people out there really like their jobs in any profession..work wise very few get the dream job
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL......
Hate to say it but there's some truth to what she says. She could have been alittle more tactful in her words but I get it. I've heard the same but in a more polite way from other ladies.I think she may have wrote that while sipping alittle too much vino and just had a hard day. It's a tough business and some guys really don't get it.
Just my 2 cents
You are CORRECT, hpygolky!!.....She needs a Vaca, AND alot of what she wrote is TRUE....Sad, but TRUE.....Especially the....."What is your real name"?....."Would love to take you to lunch some time, off the clock"......"Hey, I have concert tickets., would you like to hang out next weekend".....The particular annoying one, when I did incall was...................How long have you lived here, what do you pay for this place, and do your neighbors KNOW"?????......Uggggggggs, really?.....And that is your business, because?????.
Oh, BEST one yet!.....They would pick up my personal photo's (in frames) of my family/friends, and say...."who is that"?...Is that your Mom, Dad, Sister, daughter, etc......C'mon guys, common sense...
Best to NEVER use your own home, NEVER!....Not safe, or discreet....A Hotel room, check in, and check OUT!!!!!!.
Although she sounds extremely ANGRY, I too have had those experiences....Most providers HAVE, and if they say different., they are not being honest.....Who knows WHO is going to walk thru that door....Yikes!.
One horrible experience, can make you want to take a full week off....Most men just don't "get it"...
Have a great weekend everyone!.
Kayla~ xo
Just my 2 cents
The worst are guys who can't take the hint when you tell them to see someone else instead of you. It means that I don't like you as a client. No matter what hell you put them through to make them not call you back and they still want to see you.
surfing the net last night i stumbled across this "rant" from an "upscale denver escort." now, bear in mind it came from craig's list, so there's a red flag right there.
but this woman seems to hate all the guys she's been with...and i think a lot of hobbyists wonder if the lady they are with secretly feel the same way.
i'm hoping this girl is atypical. i mean, if you hate the people you are with and constantly choose to be with them for money, that doesn't say much about you, does it?
thought?
I'm actually sad for this girl.
GOD no, this is not typical. At least it's not in my expierence. I have met some of the most wonderful men and formed some of the most meaningful friendships through TER. I have only had one expierence EVER doing this that I'd say was a horrible expierence. The rest of the men I have meet through TER have been kind, fun, funny, clean, etc.
Sincerely,
Hannah