Hello all,

I was a provider long ago, based in LA, but I only see very few names that I recognize on a quick glimpse of this message board.  I retired in 2007, got married, had a kid, went back to school, got my BA, MA, and now working on doctorate.  However, this message is not about me.  It is about a hobbyist, who became an incredible friend, who passed away yesterday.  His name here was JockeyPants and in Los Angeles, he was a friend to many of the providers of that era.  He would take care of us when we were ill, cook amazing dinners for us, include us in Thanksgiving celebrations, and provided unconditional support for many of us who did not have conventional support systems.

I was fortunate enough to have made some amazing friendships while in the business and I feel the need to thank the place (this forum) that allowed for me to have known such a loving soul.  He attended my wedding, I was lucky enough to attend his a couple of years after that and was able to maintain a friendship with him and his new wife and her family.  He finally found the true love that had alluded him for so many years, and I know there are people here who will remember him and be happy to hear that his dream did eventually come true.

He was not ill, he dropped dead while running errands yesterday morning.  I am so glad to have had the opportunity to know him and many other extraordinary people thanks to this "hobby" and I just wanted to share my love with you all.  I hope you all are well, I am so thankful for all of the experiences and relationships that I was able to cultivate thanks to this discussion board.  Thank you for being here and allowing the free flow of ideas and feelings that foster honest and open exchanges.  

With fond memories, gratitude, and love,

Kim