The review is honest honest as far as we can tell and shows the reviewer clearly say he forced his desired on the girl despite the fact that the item (rimming) was not on the menu.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholdent , we all determine our own 10s ,9s, & 7s.
Something is desperately wrong with the scoring system when a 7 is scoffed on by both the provider and clients. Over inflated score has made compromised the integrity of the scoring.
So when (IMHO) a guy abuses this wonderful resource we have an trys to economically effect a provider with a bad review either because she does not give a service that he was told in advance she does not provide,or because he has erectile issues I get very angry. I did not used to give a shit is time to stop the hobby?
Just read a review where the guy gave a gal a shit score on looks and service. He was the only bad score of many. In the other reviews it clearly let the Member know the girl was not into Rim or Assfuck. He ignored the advice and the TER services and pushed the issue. The girl (according to the review) got distant and not a GFE. He said he left 36 minutes in. There was a suggestion he could not get hard. I read his other reviews and that is a recurent theme.
So when (IMHO) a guy abuses this wonderful resource we have an trys to economically effect a provider with a bad review either because she does not give a service that he was told in advance she does not provide,or because he has erectile issues I get very angry. I did not used to give a shit is time to stop the hobby?
I got no problem with a "tough" reviewer. But crappy scores because the reviewer favors Asians, and the provider is a Nordic blond; don’t wash.
As much time as TER has spent rooting out fake, or "self-reviews" it would be good to possibly suspend the "speed reading" occasionally during the approval process and focus more on "comprehension" of what is being said.
I don't underestimate the daunting daily task of "approving" all the reviews; but sometimes priorities and precepts seem askew, forgotten, or overlooked.
The criticism of this guy's review makes no sense to me.
Calling this reviewer some kind of misogynist or sociopath is absurd.
His review was thoughtful and well-explained. He had nice things to say about the woman, he did not have a satisfactory experience and he explained why.
He did not feel closeness with this provider. He explains why. He was looking for something more than professional sex and he did not get it in that session and he explained why.
I had a similar experience with a Korean provider and gave a similar review of her. The only difference was that the other reviewers had generally similar things to say. That could have been a coincidence.
But I am always pleased when the reviews are thoughtful and give some greater understanding of the experience. If I am going to read a review, I prefer to learn something from it.
Hey Ed,
all good points...when you gave a poor review was it based on mis mact of body type and services completely evidenced by the CV/ER data? I doubt it your reviews are thourough and fair from my vantage point. Froomie saqys it best in the last point...that is the purpose of ER. These reviews are not depositions they are opinoins good or bad.
I should stick my big nose elsewhere....like a pretty partialy shaved muff around mid wilshire area
happy hobby
Thanks for the thoughtful reply!
Especially the one you made to Froomie - that explained your perspective really well.
I was reacting more to the other post calling this guy a sociopath. [Your post on his email is a different issue though.]
It is so hard to know what people are really like based on a few lines in an internet post!
Anyway, to answer your questions, my review was also 7s for a Kgirl who did her job professionally. The prior reviews also suggested that the experience was not quite what i wanted, so i was warned to some extent. But her photos were so awesome i needed to see for myself.
My experience made me question the photos. They might be real, but this girl was not nearly as stunning as those photos. If those are her photos, they were taken on an amazing day when she was as gorgeous as is possible for her, or perhaps they were touched up; or perhaps she has gained weight or something.
Regardless, the girl I met was good looking so I would not have given 7s if that was the only issue. I felt she was a 7.5, so if the experience had been good i would have given her 8s.
In my review i was reacting to the fact that this girl was not in any way into me, or the session with me. This could have been YMMV, but the other reviews had similar comments. The girl avoids kissing; she does not turn her head to you. The girl does not allow an intimate connection to happen. To me, that is what you expect from an AMP, not a K girl you go to for $250 or more to have a GFE. She performed technically. It was not sexy or romantic or exciting. That is not what i want from this stuff and I prefer to avoid experiences that do not provide a more intimate connection. I tried to explain that in my review.
Note: I did NOT review the same girl as this guy did. So I have no opinion about that girl. I only was posting that I appreciate the disappointment with a session where there is no real connection and the provider has techniques which avoid that connection by their nature.
As an aside, I also saw another K-girl named Dot not long ago. She was amazing, Perfect GFE experience. Anyone who wants a Kgirl and a more real GFE will not be disappointed with Dot. [Except, this was a few months ago, I caught a severe cold from the experience and that made me realize the risk of this stuff. No big deal in my case; but it underscores the risk we take with GFE.]
Don't you just respect the guys review? He is basing it on his experience. Unless you were there, it is useless to complain about another persons review unless it is blatantly fake.
Why does this review bother you? Unless you have a stake in this it shouldn't. My ATF's have received some less than stellar reviews but I don't go and start calling that reviewer on it (and it would help if you didn't call him out with an alias..but that's another issue).
Basically, he is entitled to his review as you are of yours. We all will not get a silk purse when that magic door opens but as the line goes:
Beauty is in the cash you are about to spend...wait..did I mess that up?
Beems waxing poetic...(And my privates..ouch)
So when (IMHO) a guy abuses this wonderful resource we have an trys to economically effect a provider with a bad review either because she does not give a service that he was told in advance she does not provide,or because he has erectile issues I get very angry. I did not used to give a shit is time to stop the hobby?
Thank Beemer......your right it is a product/serrvice. One person drives a Rolls says wow, another complainns of low mileage. As a service, each opinion is valid unto itself. My reviews at least involve erections and sex though LOL...Froomies throw out the low and the hi is brilliant!
Kinda standing on my pile of shit screeaming about the smell of others huih? What a whining cheesball...out for a hat trick tonight to clear the stupidity out...happy hobby
7 is not what I'd consider a "shit score". TER seems to have a major problem with people being afraid/unwilling to give honest scores and reviews --Let's not encourage that. If I have a terrible time with a provider, I'm going to give well below a 7 in performance.
That said, a single 7 on a page of 9s and 10s isn't going to severely impact the provider's business. I'd much rather someone have the guts to give providers the score he thinks they deserve, and explain well in the details, than just phone in a review.
Honest reviews (even if they dissent from the majority opinion) help providers and hobbyists both.
You asked so I answered!
You judge reviews like you judge ice skating. Throw the top score and the bottom score out.
Everyone's not gonna click with every girl. Case in point for me, there is a VERY well reviewed and well liked girl I just have absolutely no chemistry with. I saw her a couple of times just because she was so hot looking, but in the end, we just did not connect.
Obviously this guy was looking for something specific and he didn't get what he wanted. Well, he should have shopped better. That's why there are reviews. But he's entitled to voice his opinions. Whatever.
And I really don't think one guy's review is going to affect this girl's earnings. She's hot and the real deal.
Well said Froomie....salient points...the core purpose of the site is to express opinions....Drop high and low score rule....poor shopping or unused or unlearned literacy does not invalidate the review...wish this had been the first post. I go out tonight mind clean and libidio in high gear
Have you written many reviews? I thought that was a fine review. Sometimes you just don't click and a 7 is not a bad score anyway. Of course, I have been surprised when one of my atfs get a mediocre score. But usually it is clear in the review why. And in this case the reviewer made it clear. The guy doesn't like skinny girls and I love skinny girls, so the fact that she's too skinny for him makes me want to see her more. To each his own.
Thank K bird...i do have a lot of reviews. I get what you are saying. What had tripped my trigger was the reviewer professed to be a don juan and experienced hobbier. He then selected a girl who is acurate to pics and non provided services; and then reduce score based on those things. Froomie is right though..he has a right to discuss his opinion. Also the content of the review tells the story to those that read it.
He had sent me a couple of "fuck your mother" "you have acne" "all girl come six times with me" private mails yester day so I think he has issues beyond review dynamics. Just hate to see the very few girls that are a treat to be with, burned out by anti social people.
However as Froomie so aptly pointed out that ain't my job......this forum actually works well. I could have spent $500.00 at a shrink and not got these results ![]()
I can't believe I never though of dropping the high and low score I am humbled.
Well if this guy is sending you hate mail like that, obviously, he is a bit off the bell curve.
Look, you don't have to worry. Girls like her are seasoned, they have a tough skin, they don't give a damn about one guy that they didn't please 100%. That review is not even on her radar, it's all you that raised this concern.
Actually there were a number of other things he mentioned as well--basic shower, no dfk until well into the session, etc. There were enough negatives that I thought I might have a problem with chemistry, which is very rare. Btw, I haven't seen this girl, so I don't know anything about her. (But, of course, now I have to see her!)
But, anyway, I'm sorry to hear about the psycho emails. The guy clearly has issues. It's funny, he can dish out criticism, but seems pretty touchy when you comment on his review--and that is not even his livelihood.
And some of these k-girls really do care about every review. I remember one girl telling me, "If I get good reviews, I go back to Korea happy." I also remember Irene being upset about a 7, despite having many stellar reviews. Even Lohan was distraught over a 7! How can you have over 200 reviews and not have a few people you don't click with!
I think many of these k-girls care about what they do, and that's a major reason why they are so damn good. I think it is part of the Korean work ethic, just like the guy at the cleaners or market. No wonder S. Korea is such an economic success.
Sometimes we hobbiest forget how spoiled we are to have a hundred great k-girls to meet our needs.
The review is honest honest as far as we can tell and shows the reviewer clearly say he forced his desired on the girl despite the fact that the item (rimming) was not on the menu.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholdent , we all determine our own 10s ,9s, & 7s.
Something is desperately wrong with the scoring system when a 7 is scoffed on by both the provider and clients. Over inflated score has made compromised the integrity of the scoring.
So when (IMHO) a guy abuses this wonderful resource we have an trys to economically effect a provider with a bad review either because she does not give a service that he was told in advance she does not provide,or because he has erectile issues I get very angry. I did not used to give a shit is time to stop the hobby?