Wanted to see provider and fellow hobbyists thoughts on ymmv, mainly
1. Providers is your menu the same for all hobbyists as long as they pass screening?
2. Do you ever push boundaries for your favorite regulars?
I bring this up because I was interested in seeing a fairly well reviewed provider,
who had good reviews except two lower reviews. Those reviews mentioned she did not dfk with
them and bbbj was very brief. This made me worry about ymmv. I contacted her directly and asked
what was on the menu. I asked if Russian was available,  she said no. Then I replied that I saw it was mentioned
In one of the reviews she did russian. Then she replied fine, she doesn't mind russian. She goes onto to say  
if she feels a connection sky is the limit.  I ultimately chose not to see her and explained we
are donating for a service and the menu should not be determined if you find me attractive
or not. I understand if hygiene or attitude is an issue but those things should be caught on
screening. Thoughts?

If you're discussing sexual acts and how much you are paying her for them you are doing the same thing LE would do and a smart provider will have nothing to do with you.
 She doesn't have to think you are the hottest guy around, if you are clean and respectful you'll usually have a great time without discussing specifics.  
 If however you are a disrespectful gross smelly slob you can hardly blame her for not wanting to give you the best blowjob you have ever had. YMMV should be expected, they are women not machines or sex slaves locked in a dungeon for your pleasure and you will usually get the level of service you deserve from them.

on who the girl is. Cleanliness/hygiene is a major key for me.

oth parties bring something to the table.  If you bring negativity, are rude, disrespectful of course I am not going to give you the same experience as someone who is polite, well-groomed and respectful.

Chemistry also counts for A LOT but cannot be determined beforehand.

Madison

 

 
 

Completely agree with you. I was just saying if a client is polite, hygienic, well groomed, do people think it is wrong a provider holds back on certain things she because of reasons beyond the client's control (I.e. might not find him attractive). It was just a turn off
that a service was not offered until she was called out on it...one thing im sure both parties hate is bartering.

You made very good points, thank you for your input. I guess I was trying to say, if a client is
optimal and doing his best in regards to things he can control like  attitude and hygeine, is it fair to not provide same service to him as a person you find more attractive or charming. Can experiences be provided in an objective rather then subjective manner? For example if someone is going to pay for a haircut, would it be fair for the barber to only offer certain things like shampooing the hair after  to select people. Reviews are a double edged sword because it can provide a glimpse on what may be possible, but may also lead to certain expectations.

There are no guarantees for how a session will go. She doesn't owe you the same experience as the last guy, but if you pick your provider carefully and are a good client she will want to send you away happy and she'll do what see can to make that happen.
If you look for the cheapest provider you can find you can expect up-sells and negotiating, both big turn offs for me, but most good GFE provider's rates are all inclusive (excepting greek which may be extra).

Like others have said chemistry, safety and comfort can play heavily in whether or not a provider will give you 110% of her effort, or only 50%. I personally never rely or even read most reviews since they don't contain much of anything relevant to what my experience might be like. I've got to assume that if we click & the chemistry is right, then she'll be inspired to relax with me and enjoy our session and maybe push the envelope a bit. But for many providers it will be uncharted territory, so I would expect that they might be just as nervous as I am!

I appreciate your approach here and agree with all of what you said.

I don't think it's reasonable for the OP to be comparing an intimate sexual service with a haircut, but I do agree with the potential for setting expectations.

I've also gotten reviews that list details that are completely off-limits for me! Why? I have no idea.

However, I do have regulars who have posted reviews with details that I have only done with them after a substantial relationship was developed. I welcome those, because it highlights that a consistent and respectful relationship comes with benefits!

That being said, my attitude and type of service I keep pretty consistent at least on a surface level. Also - considering providers are human beings with their own feelings and varying capabilities, it is completely ok for one to change their mind at any given moment! Why anyone would want a provider to push a boundary or limit because they were pressured to, not because they WANT to, is beyond me.

do they catch if your a cheese dick on screening?

There are no guarantees.  And based on your post, most providers will hang up on you if you persist on asking those types of questions.

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Big + 1! Unless both parties agree to dick selfies. Lol.

Can they catch hygiene on screening? Very curious here lol

Arrive on time, be nice, respectful and a gentleman of course. And be clean or take a quick shower. Golden rule, treat others as you'd like to be treated. I always hope for high mileage and usually get it just for the above and hope for some chemistry.