I came across a provider's website in which she made a big deal about never handing the envelope to her, but put it on the table. Have I been doing this wrong all along? Any comment or explanation about this fuss?

on a table rather than handing it directly would , in the event of a bust , provide her plausible denial that she knew of the envelope or what it contained. This of course is only false sense of security that won't stand up in court. But , still it is part of the protocol with some.

Unless otherwise requested,  you leave the envelpoe discreetly on the table after the fact , unless that is you "forget it's a service" and , without realizing,  leave with the envelope on you.

Lol! Forgetting it was a service has been the trademark of some! Happened to me a couple of times! Glad I can laugh it off now.

I get that out of the way asap so as not to create any awkward moments.



Beemer

And I never pay up front, but like Beemer said that can lead to forgetfulness.  I had such a great session with Kami a few weeks back and almost walked out of the door without paying.  Of course it was just another day at the office for her so she gently reminded me I forgot to pay her.  It's always a bit embarrassing.

but what if she steals it?

I was actually left speechless by your question.....which is a valid one.

But with the girls I see, they have been honest and very professional. I have left items accidentally and have had the provider call me and let me know. If it is something that I can come back for later then I tell them so. No sweat.

The one thing I admire about the kgirls are that the majority of them are honest, real and very very profesional. The caveat being don't go in with doe eyes.

Other than that, keep things cool and you won't end up looking like a fool!  Woop woop!

Beemer loves you all! Except one...the racist.

My experience has been just the opposite. I rarely give the
envelope until I'm ready to leave. Only on a very few occasions
have I been asked. Maybe my good reputation precedes me. LOL!!!

I always leave the envelope on a table or night-stand within the first 5 minutes of the appointment. I don't want the lady wondering about it. I want her focusing on other things  

Good point! The focus is number one priority and so we do't want it to be on the wrong thing

Do you just give plain white ones?

I have doodled pictures on a couple of ones I have left and the provider (s) always thought they were cute and funny. Just curious....

I agree with Crazy.  However, I stopped using envelopes.  I just place the cash on the nightstand, dresser, or table & let my date see that I have so we don't have to worry about it.

In the past, when I gave the donation at the end of the date, I have forgotten to place it on the table.  But both ladies were very sweet about it.  I told one of them that I had such a good time I wasn't thinking clearly & floating on air.  She, very sweetly, said that she had almost forgotten too (Yeah, right!!!).  But still in all, what a nice thing to say.

agreed.....The last time it happened I couldnt even look the provider in the eyes...very embarrasing to say the least....

I guess you can say it is a case by case basis...For the ATF regulars, leaving it at the beginning is not a problem whereas newbies maybe at the end...

The best being she returns the envelope....yikes...


Beemer

I received a hot pink one recently which is my favorite color.  It made my day!  

The more upscale the provider, the less of an issue is the "donation" handling.  I have never come across any providers who made an issue with how or when or where I leave the $$.

No envelopes for me either; left discreetly on the bedside table as the General said, after the fact, unless requested. I've never forgotton but I have to return with an errant bill from the bottom of my pockets on a couple occasions.

the envelope as soon as I walked in the door. She then took out the bills, examined each one to make sure the were real. She was very hot and I was really looking forward to spending some fun time with her but for me, that action spoiled the entire session. I would never want to see her again. She had checked out my references before the date and knew I was whitelisted so I don't think there was  any excuse for this. I've since heard from other hobbyists that she does this all the time.

that when they check the envelope they discover it contains a few $1 notes , some have even found fake notes.I have heard of  con artists ( possibly Steve) somehow secure appointments ( or impersonate clients) and then leave without paying. K- dolls and other working girls are sitting targets for robbers masquerading as clients.

There is also  nothing to stop a K-doll from calling her Booker and falsely  claiming client screwed her out of donation.

and left with the envople I'm my pocket it has fortunately been with regular ATF's who truly make it appear real. It has near been a big deal because we have discussed such a situation in advance and agreed to wait till the next time. On a few occasions I have been reminded at the door but mostly it seems both of us forget it's a service, further evidence of the quality service these K-dolls provide.  

Never pay or discuss anything until part of you is wet...very wet.

I was asked once to pay before anything fun happened....I started looking for camera's and slowly backed out of the room and headed for the hills.