"But how do you walk out without hurting someone's feelings?" But, if you don't, she won't be motivated to change her routine; either lose weight, or get new pics. that fairly represent her appearance.
All right, so I had this hobbyist pm me about a provider I had seen some time ago who shall remain anonymous. I gave her a good review, it was actually a really good time, and the guy says he was just confirming that it was the girl and that he trusted my reviews. So he pm's me about a week later that it was the same girl, she gave him good service, but that she was a LOT heavier than her pictures and that he almost walked out but would have felt bad--and was horny as hell. He asked me if I ever walked out because the reality didn't match the pix, and I told him in all my years, the pix were usually pretty close. I'm glad I haven't been in that situation because I think I might walk out because we're paying for a fantasy date, right? But how do you walk out without hurting someone's feelings?
"But how do you walk out without hurting someone's feelings?" But, if you don't, she won't be motivated to change her routine; either lose weight, or get new pics. that fairly represent her appearance.
She doesn't necessarily have to "lose weight", but yes, new pictures, or real pictures that fairly represent her appearance. Let's not give anyone a body image issue, besides, some of us love a more voluptuous woman.
I offered either losing weight or post new pictures as options. The woman has free will, so I'm assuming she can chose which option she prefers, and can implement it.
I've lost over forty pounds, and have kept it off for several years, so I know it's a reasonable option.
I failed to walk twice when I should have, it was late and no one else had called back. But why worry about her feelings? Will she give you a price break because she feels sorry that you drove all way out to see her and she is not like her pic? I don’t think so. And of course if it’s a different story if she is someone you have seen before and you know the service will be totally on. But you say the ad/pic is way off and you wanted what was exactly in the ad/pic. You walk out.
Yes. You walk out and you tell her why. And I've NOT walked a couple times when I should have because like everyone else, you're there, you're ready, you're not the kind of selfish jerk who books then blows off someone as a "backup." So you go in and go for it and feel semi-crappy afterward.
It's a lose/lose thing.
I just wish they'd all be straight up honest as they expect us to be.
Or as one of you guys said, it should be perfectly reasonable when faced with that to renegotiate! A change for the worse should get a rate cut. Simple. But it wouldn't happen.
In my experience, the only times I have walked out were in the pre-internet days. So, I had not seen them prior to their opening the front door.
If I didn't like what I saw, I'd just make an excuse that I didn't feel well or something. I'm not going through with a meeting if I'm not interested in the provider.
Oh sure, I've seen some providers where I was less than thrilled with them looks wise, but I was there, horny and they weren't too bad.
These days, I have not been duped in terms of looks. I think with easy access to Photoshop, some girls enhance the photos, but it's still them.
Even the one time I had a girl come over and rip me off, at least she was hot.
Right on Lanforce, done the same thing. If I have an inkling that things may not be what they seem I tell them with such a wide variety of providers I really study the pictures. That I've been really studying hers. Ask if there are any surprises I should expect because I'd hate her to set aside the time and have me leave, which I will if it isn't her. Haven't had to leave once and have numerous providers tell me that "for privacy the photos are a likeness", "my hair is a different color now", "I hurt my back and haven't been able to work out" and "a friend posted the pictures, not sure which ones she used". Don't be shy, it's YOUR money, tell them you'll leave first, most of the time you'll flush out the fakes.
When you book, tell the girl you've printed out her ad pics and if they don't match you will cancel the appointment - then politely ask "is there anything you'd like to tell me ?"
You will usually get the confessions right there - and can then act accordingly (most often heard response "well I just had a baby and . . . ")
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