Hi sexy Carla -

Based on my experiences, the true difference between GFE and PSE is on the nature of the experience. A GFE tends to be gentler, with more DFK, and an attempt at true connectivity at a level beyond the physical. Less about physicality and more about intimacy. A PSE on the other hand is more balls to the wall fucking. Anal is usually part of the menu (some ladies even use anal as their dividing line between the two). More physical and raw. More positions, more frenzy. That's not to say that the two types are mutually exclusive, but in my mind, when I'm in the mood for a GFE, I'm thinking slow and sensual and soulful, and when I'm thinking PSE, it's fast and hard and frenzied.

That's just how I look at it, and I'm sure you'll get many different answers.

To get more specific about the answer you're looking for...for me it's a mood thing. One is not inherently better than the other; it just depends on what I'm feeling that day. I personally lean more towards enjoying a GFE experience, but sometimes I just want to be a lustful, sexy animal. Some ladies, just like us, lean more one way than the other, but both are readily available. Neither is inherently more enjoyable...each is GREAT! Just depends on the mood, and the vibe the lady puts out in her advertising and when we meet.

And to get even MORE specific regarding some of your questions...while I associate a PSE with a more "aggressive" encounter, that's not to say that in a PSE, I have to be the dominant party, or vice versa.  Nor in a GFE am I necessarily looking to be more submissive.  I've had great GFE sessions where I told the lady exactly what I was going to do, or vice versa...but it was more sensual, and passionate than lustful and wild.  Same on the flip side...I've had great PSE sessions where the lady bossed me around and others where she did exactly as I told her.  Again, it all comes down to the energy in the experience.  One is more tender and sensuous, the other is more lustful and frenzied. Neither is more exciting for me per se, just depends on the mood, and neither is mutually exclusive...I've had GFE sessions that have taken PSE turns, and PSE sessions that suddenly become very GFE-like.

Hope this helps.  Feel free to PM me and I can always elaborate.

Ciao bella,

LL6969

PS. I keep coming back to my answer because I keep seeing different questions. I don't think one is more sound and fury signifying nothing than the other.  It's obviously harder to "fake" a GFE than a PSE, but not impossible.  I've had both types of sessions where it's clear the lady is just going through the motions...fortunately few and far between...but I don't think one necessarily means "connection" and the other means "performance".  The "genuine connection" you seem to mean can happen in either; it's just one is a more primal connection while the other is a bit more soulful, if that makes any sense.

My preference is more of a GFE session but a DT BBBJNQNS finish makes the session outstanding....

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Hi Bella.  Good questions.  What makes this post difficult to answer is the absence of generally accepted definitions.  i.e. GFE and PSE.  
We can go to urbandictionary.com and get an idea, but like the old cliche:  “I can’t define it, but I know it when I see (or experience) it.”  Look at porno and get an idea what that “Experience” is.  If you have had a real girlfriend,  you know what a GFE is.  I will opine, that a GFE, involves warmth, caring, consideration and affection from both partners.
I am not naive enough to believe that most highly rated, so called GFE providers actually have these feelings, but they make us guys think they do…
PSE.  Just mechanics.  OK for some..  
Me?  I prefer the warmth and attention of a GFE with the down and dirty mechanic of the PSE.

Just my 2 Lira!  Cheers!  The Vet

What I per sieve as the GFE, more tenderness, sensuality, Deep french kissing is a must, but tender kissing, not biting lips and ramming tongue down throat, that would be PSE.
the GFE sex? deep french kisses while in missionary is hard to beat, both physically and visually. Flowing, sensually from position to position. Pleasing and being pleased.
PSE sex, more animalistic, perhaps mechanical feeling, an act as Carla put it.
both are fun and both have their place in the hobby, but for me, I lean more toward the GFE than PSE.