I have been a member on this site for four years and hobbying for my last six. I was let down recently by my hobby brethren for fudging the numbers on a provider who was rated quite high but doesn't live up to said numbers. This was not a YMMV situation as she is quite nice but her bedroom skills and overall appearance were severely lacking compared to what the reviews stated.  I just wanted to vent my frustrations with the review process. If we are beholden to providers who might blacklist us for righting an apt review then TER shouldn't exist. To have to back channel to get the "real" review annoys me.

I used my alias for obvious reasons, I have 40 reviews on this site. If you'd like to know the lady to which I am referring you can PM me, I will not out her due to TER guidelines.

Yet you are blaming everyone who previously reviewed her.

I recently contacted a lady and came close to making appointment because at first look her reviews looked okay.  However, then I later took a closer look she had some "should have stayed home" reviews.  Those bad reviews had the same theme that clearly suggested this lady is an addict.  The bad reviews seem to have happened when either this lady was crashing or not high.  In one case, the hotel management, fire department, and police ended up at the room.  

Needless to say, but I passed on seeing her!  Even though her good reviews, probably when high, were largely 8/9 it's not worth the risk and potential drama.