I think there's something to it and I've experienced a few tantra sessions. Perhaps an obvious statement, but the provider is all important and I think you need to be in the mood to be guided through a session and develop a connection with the provider.

With someone good, it's an intense experience.

HTH

Would you mind sending a link to a website that has some good tantra teachers, and which ones are best.

templeofbliss.com is pretty good but it also depends who they have working that day.

I learned ejaculatory control (the ability to have multiple "dry" orgasms) from a book called "How To Make Love All Night and Drive a Woman Wild" by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D.  It's a straight forward, simple read.

Of course, there are other tantra experiences, but a lot of it leads up to the ability to control orgasms and ejaculation.  So if you want that part of it, you don't need go through all the other tantra trappings, some of which don't interest many men.

Tantra providers do other things, however, which are worth trying if you've never experienced them.  For example, male g-spot stimulation can be quite enjoyable, although some guys are uncomfortable with that level of intimacy.  But I tried it with a tantra "goddess" and found it to be an incredible experience, and something I'd love to repeat.  YMMV, however.

I've been noticing the ads as well and have thought about taking the plunge. There are a few around TER that publish tantric sessions with decent reviews. Will let you know how it goes!

If anybody has any specific rec's, please PM me. I'd appreciate it!

Tantra is a session I offer, but do not post because it has to do with more, than most can handle.  We are exchanging energy, learning sexual techniques, prolonging orgasms, controlling your ejaculation & Mastering your sexuality on a higher level than just regular, or normal.

there are a lot of ads that use that buzz word tantra. i have had actual intensive training and i'm certified in magnetic tantra and whole body healing (which is based on chakra activation and rebalancing) as well as being an ordained minister (tantra is an actual religion predating christianity by 3,000 years). in my sessions i have a wide range of modalities to suit the seeker - from a person (because i work w woman and couples too) who just wants to connect energy through touch to the advanced session with ceremony. tantra does not mean sex. it means to weave. there is white tantra which has nothing to do with sex through to red tantra, which hold sensuality and sexuality as a sacred exchange. if you have any questions please do not PM me...you can reach me on :

tantrikaonthemove at hushmail.com

i would love to hear from those that have an actual interest in red tantra. i have had many a seeker who come in thinking its one thing and leave a complete convert to my practice.