I was wondering what kind of arrangements you have made as a sugar daddy. And please share any good/bad experiences.

Thanks so much

Usually, we will discuss each other's wants & needs, then agree upon offerings that work for the both of us.

Here are a few examples:
We meet once a week for food & fun. 4 times total a month no clock watching for a monthly rate we agree with.

Shopping & gifts...spoil me & in return you get the same.

Pay a few bills.  I had 1 bf/sd pay for my executive membership at the sporring club with spa treatments too!

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Great information, thank you so much.

Wondering what the range might be for a monthly agreement.  

Do you make it a monthly donation or split it into 4 donations?

Gifts are just part of the fun. :

I have had 3 different daddies

Each experience has been different

 
The first was when I was a dancer - he met me there and wanted to do dinners and handed me cash asking if it was enough for a dinner date with dessert at his place. It was 500$ which for me at that time was a lot since I was more of a wallflower than a stripper and made little cash on my shifts. We went to dinner and then went to his place for dessert which was beers and ticktacks. The night ended with no sexual activities but he said if I stayed over it would be more next time. So we met about a dozen times with each visit being more or a "real date" situation with dinner and sex at his place. Generally we would meet once or twice per month and he would generally give me 600-1000$ each time. He also enjoyed self medicating with herbal refreshments and gifted me with smoking accessories which I usually passed on to friends having little use for them at that time. This was when I was 18.

 
Flash forward three years and I joined a sugar daddy site and met with one gentleman who wanted sex rite away and this was before I offered FS so I was reluctant. He passed and never contacted again but shortly after I was contacted by another guy who wanted to meet. I met him for coffee and we totally hit it off with common interests like Disney and Harry Potter (as well as being very kinky I found out later). I was dating at that time and told him blow jobs only (because I still hadn't been offering FS even to clients). We would go to casinos, he would buy me Tiffanies, leave me "lunch money" and take me to nice hotels. We never had an arrangement but it was always a great time. He stopped meeting with me when his wife and him got into counseling and now texts me randomly asking if I can get to a certain hotel by a certain time for a quickie. LOL

 
My current daddy is on the east coast and I only get to see him once per month. He and I met though the hobby so he and I have never needed to discuss an arrangement as he knew my rates. The others did not know of my work. He and I have a ball going to Vegas, theme parks, topless pools, bars, dinners --- you name it! Oh and adult theaters, heehee.

 

I suggest considering what your needs for a SB are and maybe posting an ISO with that info:
- budget
- needs (dates, sex, travel, phone chats, etc)
- wants (looks, age, sexuality, etc)
- how often you wish to meet

 
Good luck!

Really great advice, thank you so much for sharing your adventures

I didn't have a good experience (I found a SD on a sugar daddy "dating" site). Needless to say I have been making it very clear from the get go what is offered and what I expect. If you have any interest please check out my website's (link below) donation page and read the "Sugar Love" section under "Phoenix Donation Rates".  

I also have an option for total exclusivity (I quit seeing clients and don't have any relationships outside of the SD relationship) for the time he/she is willing to commit to.

Or COD all at once on the 1st meeting of the month preferably.

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Sugar daddies, I have had a few over the years. Some gave me cash, some took me to exotic vacations, some lavished me with life that i could only dream about, and some broke my heart. I had fun, for what it was worth.

From experience, i rather hobby than be a sugar baby given the complications that comes with the arrangement, and a mere fact that a guy could simply be playing smart.

My most recent offered a lump sum. After careful thinking, in all honest to myself, I can't see my myself happy in Ohio committed to married old man, i am choosing to NOT take the offer. At times it hurts, It is such a good chunk of money.

My advice, if i may. Hobby~ variety is a spice of life, there's simple open expectations, in the arms of the right companion your needs/wants are still met effortlessly.

Ciao

zoe piers

I had some offers but ..
Never trust ..
Plus I Got really scared
EX
Try to put a  free stray cat and in nice house and shut the doors
I will go crazy ..lol
No matter how confortable  is the house
With no freedom life is miserable ....at least for me
I rather see guys on hoobie drama free and more freedom
CC

"Familiarity breeds contempt"

I have mostly had great experiences. I really enjoy having the time to really get to know someone and find out with makes them tick and where they derive their happiness from and how I can give that to them best. I only enter into arrangements like that with people I authentically enjoy spending time with (luckily almost all my clients fit the bill). It is really nice to know you are going to have that lump sum deposited once a month, and for the gentlemen, he ends up saving many thousands of dollars.  

My only bad experience is once you have been seeing each other for a while, I have had two men get sort of chintzy and cheap and start doing the whole "Oh well,  I thought eventually you would fall in love with me and then we would be in a real relationship where I don't have to offer financial benefits." BOO. pass on that.

But yeah,  I have had several wonderful SD/SB relationships.